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writes:This guy I was talking to lived 2 hours away. I just found out he has had a girlfriend from the start. We started talking mid January and he never told me. He kept saying how I am so pretty, and amazing. And so much more. He said he wasnt talking to any girl and stuff. His exact quotes are, "I know its because i was talking to someone. But now im not.. And I will talk to you anytime you want," and," Im not talking to anyone!!! dont be sad!!" The girl just texted me saying that she would appreciate it if i wouldnt text him anymore cause they are going out. What do i do?
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reader, Moxie Bliss +, writes (28 February 2010):
 just stay away. If he's cheating on this girl and not telling you about her. and you guys get together, what's stopping him from doing it to you. save yourself the heartache.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 February 2010):
Confront him. She could be a jealous girl who has nothing to do with him.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 If you have no other reason to beleive he has a girlfriend already, show him the text and ask him to explain.
She might be trying to make mischief or she might be telling the truth.
Go with your gut feeling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): Confront him about lying to you, and about his gf exposing him as a liar, while talking or texting. Other than that I would avoid him if his gf is getting defensive about his talking to you. Even if there is a friend of his who is pretending to be his gf while communicating with him at the same time, he lied to you about not talking to any other girl, so that tells you what he's like, and that he's just playing different girls if he can.
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reader, kissyheart  +, writes (28 February 2010):
i guess you should go and confront him and just ask him questions which are in your mind once its done stop talking to him because see if you have a boyfriend and if he is talking to some other girl that also too much then obviously even you are gonna feel the same thing what his girlfriend is feeling now.maybe god wanted you to know the truth before its too late.
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