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writes:Alright, well I have a pretty large penis. About 7" and over 3" thick. I never had an issue with my penis size until now. I am seeing a girl that I really like. So far the sex has been amazing, but the other night we did it "doggie-style", and after sex she had abdominal pain, to the point that it was uncomfortable. I don't want this to be a problem with us, we ADORE each other, I never thought PENIS being TOO LARGE would be an issue until now!!!HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): Really glad we helped take some stress off your mind and that things worked out great in the bed room.
Thanks for letting us know how it went.
Keep up the good work ;)
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reader, Risk +, writes (28 February 2010):
Risk is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys and gals;Just giving you an update on the situation :)I tried your advice, and went at her pace, and did not fully penetrate in doggie position, (only a couple times by accident) AND .. she Loved it! And, so did I!!!We tried the spoon position first, which she Loved. Afterwards we went doggie and I played around with her, in circular motions, and then stroked back and forth with my head, and middle of my shaft.She told me she doesnt mind going deep once in awhile either when in the middle of the heat.I got 100% satisfactory report, A++ !! Thank you for your advice again.
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reader, Risk +, writes (27 February 2010):
Risk is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, thanks Red Green and Emivia
I am going to try your advice next time we're in bed. I think I am going to try go at her pace doggie-style, and not fully penetrate unless she wants me to.
I really appreciate your response, I think a lot of guys think that it would be a dream being above average, but we all have our own insecurities!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): It's very common for a girl to have that type of pain or discomfort when doing the doggy style thing. She may also have a medical problem going on that is mainly exacerbated during sexual intercourse. Just go lightly on her, because if you jab her too hard in that position, you'll be the only one enjoying it. Try not going so deep, and try at different angles, experimenting which one is better..Get it in her while in doggy position and then get her to lay right down with her legs slightly apart, and see if there's less heartbreak in that position. There's always a way or an angle that works, just keep trying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): Over three inches think! WOW! It wouldn't suprise me if that hurt her in EVERY position. Thank your lucky stars it's only in doggie style.
I'm a small girl and even average-size penises hurt me when I have sex doggy style.
Just avoid that position. If you really must, then try only to use the tip of your penis and then change position for full penetration.
You said you sex life was great before, so don't panic. Try other positions. Tell your girl friend that if she feels uncomfortable during sex, not to feel bad about just changing positions, and not to leave it till the end when she's in a lot of pain.
I disagree with kevin3007... I don't think going to the doctor is the answer. I'm prety sure the only way to "make it thinner", would be surgically, but there is no issue except for doggie style, so that's a pretty drastic measure just for one sexual possition.
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (27 February 2010):
Dude- sounds like she's probably not 6'-6" tall... in that position her insides are too close to your pelvis (you shortened the distance by having her on her knees)! Avoid doggie, Have her lay flat, and use her buttocks to provide a bit of cushion and effectively lengthen the distance from the tip of your dick to her cervix. You could have been banging it which will HURT her. Other positions should work well, just be aware of the geometry... spoon position might work great... play with it, see what works-
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reader, kevin3007 +, writes (27 February 2010):
 well let's say you're lucky to have a large penis girls like it as i hear but the point is sex is not every thing in a relation ship ...if it's a problem just about your penis you're not going to have a brock up guys just because a peace of flesh i mean if she really likes you she'll understand and she'll never dump you ......try to go to a doctor maybe it'll help to see why your penis is so large maybe they can make it thiner ......when you feel like your girl friend is being bored of not having sex try to say good things to her make her feel sexy girls like that as i hear and good luck buddy......
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