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writes:Im sorry that it's long but my life is confusing..So i like this guy in my school and he likes me back. I've known him from 4th grade and he's liked me since 6th. A while back in January while i dated my current ex-Boyfriend for the 7th time, he and my ex despised each other and i think my ex was jealous. my ex wanted to fight him but i didnt want either of them foghting over me so we broke up again. my ex kept on asking me if the guy i currently like is going to be my next boyfriend. i kept on telling him no, but i kind of do want him to be. The thing is, he's one of my close friends ex-boyfriend and she keeps on saying that she doesn't like him anymore but i don't want to hurt her feelings if i date him. Should i date him? he asked me already, but i don't know what to say. she says she doesn't care and he says he doesn't care what anyone thinks about it, but i do. Help anyone?
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 It means, at 13, you must not think too much about this problem. its ok to get confused but dont take it too serious, it will come clear to you later. if you are happy in one thing then just go for it. dont bother the thoughts of others,its not gonna help you anyway, its you who is making yourself sad or happy not anybody else so if you want something why hesitate? as long you know what youre doing and you know your limit then everything will be ok just keep your school on top of everything. you sound pretty smart, i wish you good day anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): Here's the deal...don't worry about who wants to fight who or who's ex-boyfriend he was...just ask him out and don't stop going out with him because of anybody's little games on the side, such as jealousy or wanting to fight. If you like him, the rest of them will just have to deal with it. Don't worry about anyone else's hurt feelings when it comes to wanting to date someone, as long as they aren't with someone else at the present time. Go for it, and hopefully he says yes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks cry and Soon567...
Ich_liebe_dich your answer doesn't really help me at all.
Soon567 i know that its over, he just loves me alot and is really confused at this time. He's the one that kept asking me for another chance i kinda did still like him at the time, i just don't have any feelings for him anymore. Im not as violent as my ex, i'm too scared to even hit an animal. He's just a hyper person and it made me very sad that he wanted to fight him, i almost wanted to cry. I have no pleasure in fights, it makes me sad to see people fight.
I tried to post my other question but they rejected it which really explains my situation im in. Thanks you guys:)
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reader, cry  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 sweetie its going to get more confusing as you grow older. go get your guy if thats what you want. what ever you want go get it and your going to have to do it your self.
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich +, writes (28 February 2010):
When i was in this age my problem is how to pass my test, how to clean and make my room look nice, how to cook and how to help my parents in everyday routine.
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