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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. He usually comes around mine and we will watch movies and play games. My siblings always seem to get in the way though. But whenever we are alone in a room, he will get on top of me and its like 2nd base. Intense kissing, the touching ect. He then trys to undo my troussers and i keep stopping him, he then asks why. He then gets annoyed when i dont give a proper answer. Dont get me wrong, its all fine until he goes to my troussers. Why do boys always want to get in a girls pants?Have we taken things slow compared to other people?So, should i be ready to move on to oral?I wouldnt mind giving it to him.. But i really dont like the idea of receiving. Is that normal?Also, im wondering what will happen the next time i go round his, i dont want anything to happen, but the way he has been acting.. Do you think i should go round his again soon?I could be comical and wear a big belt :LIdeas?Thoughts?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): do what you want.it is not up to us to tell you if you should or shouldnt do certain things because at the end of the day if you want to do so and so it is your choice.
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reader, john wayne  +, writes (29 July 2009):
well we do this because we are very horny were not trying to make asses of our selves... so give him some slack and tell him your not ready
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reader, Beleren +, writes (29 July 2009):
Its normal for a teen male to be like that his hormones are raging but he should take no for an answer. And no your not moving slow you shouldn't even be having sex at your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): If you're not up for it, tell him. Blokes (generally, obviously there are exceptions, rare exceptions) are completely incapable of noticing anything unless you point it out to them very obviously. So yeah he will keep trying until you tell him. You haven't taken things slowly in comparison to other people, you are still young. Don't do anything that you are not 100% comfortable with - seriously you'll regret it.
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reader, turtle86  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 I've been with my girlfriend for 7 almost 8 months and we are on 3rd base but only once. I fingered her but than after she knew that she wasn't ready. So being the guy I am I respected her and will not try until she is. Now to your question; your boyfriend is probably just looking to go into your pants. But look he might not, tell him "(Name), I am not ready. I'm sorry I know you are but I realy am not." By this you can tell if he likes you for you or if he likes you for what's in your pants.Oral is exactly the same time. If you honestly believe that you are ready than give it to him. But keep in mind you can get STI's from oral sex. So best would be doing it with a condom on. This part of the question is like the same thing. Tell him that you aren't ready for it and that you want it to be special and everything. Or however you want to word it. You can wear a big belt or however you please. Just don't get forced into doing something you aren't ready for. [:
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (29 July 2009):
 Well hes being a pretty normal guy, if your not ready tell him your not ready he has to respect that basically you should tell him exactly what you wrote in here. i think oyu should wait to have sex but making out shouldnt do anyharm you might learn somehting teach your bf to be more patient and under standing, you have to realise at his age epecially when he s around you his hormones are going crazy i beleive being in the pressence of a female will make it harder for him to control himself so worl with your guy he needs to cool off but dont just give it up if your not ready.as far as receiving oral if you dont like it dont do it you dint say why you dont like it though, after you try it you may like it. is it normal who knows whats normal theese days.
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (29 July 2009):
 Your boyfriend must not pressure you into anything you don't want to do. Tell him no. If he doesn't like it then he obviously isn't worth it. Your age says 13-15 so your not old enough to be having sex anyway. Take things slowly , it's your body.When i was your age i didn't like to be touched by lads down below, it felt wrong, so i avoided it. When you get older things change. Just do things you want to do and feel comfortable doing. Don't do things just to make your boyfriend happy, you must be happy to.
Good Luck xx
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