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writes:After seversal visits to my new doctor and some serious chemisrty and flirting on both sides, such as you are so pretty your probably used to men hitting on you. How do you enjoy living alone now yeah I love it too! Wow you look really beautiful in blue it really brings out your pretty blue eyes and everything else you have going on. After talking to my male and female friends I decide not to let this opportunity pass me by and pretty much let him know im interested. So at my last visit when he starts the flirting I say I really enjoying seeing you perhaps we can get together outside these walls. He smiles really big and nods and laughs "oh really, yeah like get together not inside here" I say "yeah you know maybe get some coffee" "yeah" then he steps out of the room to research something for my injury comes back and continues ti flirt and throw signals but nothing about making a date. Is he gonna call or was that is nice way of rejecting me? I havenever asked a man out before but I don't feel rejected and I believe he was flattered and took it as a compliment and I feel great for having the courage to do it. I just want to know what now should I expect a phone call or no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): I went through the same thing. On my last office visit he said “If you ever need anything let me know” and I said “What if I needed something other than medical care?” and I laughed and said “It’s not fun staying out of trouble is it?” and then told him good bye and he said “I'm pretty sure we will see each other again.”
A doctor can lose his license for dating a patient. The AMA really looks down on it – they are trying to protect both you and your doctor. In my case, I said goodbye and will go on with my life. I have a huge crush on him and I felt chemistry for the first time in years. It seemed reciprocated. Maybe not and I might not ever know. Doctors work long hours and get lonely too. They are human. Maybe he was just having fun...
In the meantime, I will go on with my life and keep us out of trouble. As boring as it is - it's in his best interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am willing to give up being his patient to get the chance to pursue this. Do you think I should try it. Will he know that I changed practices and will he get the hint and how will he contact me if I do that. Its not about being embarrassed seeing him again cause I don't have a problem with that like I said it didn't feel like a rejection and I was happy I did it. However, I would like a date
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers. So Gina do I call and request my medical records or tell them Im leaving them. How exactly do I leave the practice so he is sure to realize it.
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