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*tacii:)
writes:Im am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 27. Before we got together he used to cheat on a girl he was seeing but changed when we got together. We have been together for just under a year and he hs never cheated on me and we have a really good relationship. But the other night i went out for my friends birthday and he went out aswell, we met up later and then the next day he got a message but wouldnt read it because he knew i was looking i left it for about ten mins then he grabbed his phone and said he wanted to take a picture of me and he deleted the message. I went mad and told him i knew he had a message and deleted it and he denied he even got a message but then he told me the truth and said 'he didnt tell me cos he knows what i am like' he has apoligised loads of times for lying and deleted her number. I know the girl who text him and she gave everyone at her party her number. I dont know whether i can trust him cos if he had nothing to hide why not let me see the message and why lie? I know i have problems with trust so i dont know if its just me being paranoid. What should i do stay with him or tell him to get lost? Please help me i love him to bits x
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reader, Stacii:) +, writes (30 July 2009):
Stacii:) is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the comments, ive now seen the message & know there was nothing to it, just her saying she had a good birthday. I understand why he kept it from me cos i know i jump to concluions and were really good again. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): HE HAS NOT CHANGED! don't be blinded by love. Wake up and smell the coffee!
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reader, behindTHEtears  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 just get rid of him...
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (28 July 2009):
 get rid of him u cant b sooo naive to think that he wouldnt cheat on ur wen he has cheated on every girl his been with ofcourse hes gonna do it to u.once and cheat always a cheat and whos to say he hasnt cheated on u hes done it enough times to be good at hiding it.u deserve better and he can say i deleted it cos i know how u get but if he showed u the message in the first place u wudnt have got like anything the fact is he deleted it and thats hiding something from u i wudnt trust him if i was u and i no itd b hard cos u love him but id get out of the relationship before he can really hurt u and find someone who respects and loves u maybe around ur age group as well cos u have the think at 16 with a 27 yr old his obviously thought he could play away because 16 yr olds are bessotted and will believe anything u tell them thats obviously wot his thinking/
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reader, MRS.SCOOTA  +, writes (28 July 2009):
he may not wanted you too see the message because he knw how u r and u probaly took da message the wrong way.Girl I was da same way but I hd to learn to trust mi boyfriend...but he aint let u see da message cuz he knw u would possibly accused him of doing ths and tht
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (28 July 2009):
 Tell him to get lost. If you have issues with trust you need someone who is open with you, even if you didn't have those issues to begin with.
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