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writes:i miss my ex fiance. i dated him 3 years, in the beginning of coarse, the relationship is all good. i hear bout him sometimes, i seem like i dont care, but i care so much bout him. the last thing i heard is that hes on drugs, and hes being dumb. i think about it and blame myself for the drug use, but he has problems, bi polar etc. why do i miss him? why does he deserve to be missed? its been about 7 months since we broke up i have a new boyfriend for about 2 months and im not saying my ex fiance was the best fiance in the world, cause he wasnt, he messed me up mentally in alot of ways. but like i said when we first met i was so madly in love with him, i was crazy bout him, then 2 years later, i just got really depressed, not just cause of him but more reason for being depressed but he was part of it. when i got with this other guy and started dating him, it was intentionally, hes been amazing to me knowing that a part of me is not over my ex fiance. i dont know if hes just understanding, but i didnt miss him so much until i got with my boyfriend now. so to get closure from our break up i called my ex fiance, and i asked him why wasnt he happy with me? and the answer he told me was " he was always happy with me, and that he loved me so much, and he still loves me..." i didnt know what to say to that, so i said okay and got off the phone. i know my boyfriend doesnt deserve this... but i dont know why anymore.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 there was a reason why u got out of the relationship in the first place and whos to say if u get back in to tht relationship again it wont start over again.u was with him for a long time and obviously its going to take time to get over him i mean u made the commitment to spend ur life with him and now its all gone but now u have to look forward not back and i wudnt blame myself for his drug use he needs to move forward and so do u.by the sounds of things u have a amazing partner who sticks by u and u need to put ur ex to the back of ur mind and carry on being happy with ur life i was in a similiar situation but i think to myself there is a reason i got out of the relationship so why take me back to a stage in my life where i wasnt happy
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