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writes:hi,am getting married in 2 months and we are happy and in love with each other.my worry is that after marriage,we might get too used to each other and the fire between may vanish....how do i keep the fire between us burning? Reply to this Question
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (28 July 2009):
This is a common worry, people fear of entering the routine stage, where you are so used to each other nothing is new. Change is good so to keep the fire burning as you say do new and exciting things that you havent done before, tell your husband that you love him start talking to each other about your feelings and worries, its ok to feel this way who knows maybe he is?
Put the excitment back into your life by being different do something you would of never done before.
Think about your next steps, get a pet or start making plans the simple things can bring a couple closer.
He married you, he loves you, the fire will always be there if that carries through just sometimes you wont notice it as much, it doesnt mean its gone though.
Best of luck
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