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writes:OK so for five years I've known this guy he's not amazing looking but theres just something about him and i've always loved him and wanted to be with him. He was scared of commitment and always tried just to be friends with me even though we both know we've always been more. He's upset me a lot of times by making me feel like he wanted more than friends but then turning me down, which i know prejudices your mum and friends cos they don't want you to get hurt. Then i moved on and have been with a guy for about 10 and a half months. He's lovely, again nt the best looking, not really smart but he treats me like no other guys have, basicly really well. But now the other guy is serious about us making a go of it, and i know he's sorry and he's treated me really well lately. My boyfriend had no prospects and is really serious about being together in the future i'm not naive and just want to take things day by day. Basicly i'm now confused since the other guys come back on the scene i'm really confused and if i really loved by bf i wouldnt be confused rite? I just feel trapped with my bf and like i should let him move on, i still love him bt its like he's my brother as the passions gone. Plus, even if the other guy does hurt me i'm ready for it now and i'm not just gona break up with my bf and get with him straight away anyway. I just dnt want to spend my life thinking wat if? What if i had dated the other guy? But at the same time i dnt want to loose something great, bt right now i'm not sure what i have got with my bf is great.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (18 July 2009):
 your gut instinct is telling u your current bf isnt right for u otherwise u wouldnt feel doubts and see him more as a brother.
but this doesnt mean u shud jump straight into relations with the other guy.
take some time out and get to know the other guy properly and over a period of time before anything heavy.
good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): I think you should go with someone who is available to you, I mean no wife no kids. It is easier for both of you to be together that way. I understand Love is the key here but what good is that if you love someone and you can't be with him, it's like killing you alive. You will learn to love the next person the same or even better. Looks is not everything, how you feel for that person is the main thing in the relationship. I think you should start dating your old boyfriend again just to see your old feelings about him come back, you'll know right away. Good luck ok !!!
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