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*t-st-stuttastunna!
writes: Okay so today I was with my bf and we were hangin out with his friends and stuff and when they all left we were getting into it and iwe couldn't hav sex cause monthly shit ya know? And so he wanted a hj and I just had my hand on his tummy and he put my hand lower and I pulled back and then I felt bad cause I think I offended him. :/ Soo I need help, how do I give a good hj? I know im not gonna be good the first time.. But I don't wana totally suck you know? :/ so please help, I don't want anything with more than one hand keep it pretty simple.. Just like how to do it and a couple things I can do that wil reallyyy please him. (With one hand.) Thanks.
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reader, DH102 +, writes (25 February 2010):
ok if you want to please him witch a hand job its all about contact to the head of the penis thats where all the pleasure will come from so when you are stroking his penis stay near the head. and switch the speed up from time to time like go slow at first and build speed gradually. I am a guy this is just from experience from recieving hand jobs. hope it helps! :) and good luck will pleasin your man
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reader, st-st-stuttastunna! +, writes (19 July 2009):
st-st-stuttastunna! is verified as being by the original poster of the question Uhhmm;; no im ready for whatever,
We've already had sex.
So if that's what you were leaning toward then,
Your wrong.
And actually im not 13 im 14 almost 15,
You don't know that.
And iver been with him a long time,
Longer then any other relationship and the other one was 8 months.
And to everyone else who helped thank you!
:D
You were helpfull,
Im mostly just nervous ill be bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): k, everyone will say your too young to do this but if you think about it, its better than having sex at your age. and its not as bad as you may think bcas im 13 and tossed my lad off recently. so pretty much its best to have communication with your lad but the main thing to do it, just make a ring with your thumb and forefinger and follow the other fingers to make a tunnel type thing. slide it up and down on his dick, quite fast but not so fast that you slip off... carry on doing it at a reasonable speed until he ejaculates, its best not to stop straight away because it can be painful if you accidentily touch the head so carry on slower if he says so.
the most important thing is to tell him to tell you if you need to go faster of slower. you might feel uncomfortable looking at his penis so look at him instead or as i did, get off with him at the same time.
hope this helps xx
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reader, puzzyeetin +, writes (18 July 2009):
you need to suck his cock. He'll be very very grateful, and he'll love it more than a handjob. Sweetheart, he can give himself a handjob, right? But he can't give himself a blowjob. Give him something he doesn't have. Give him something that only you can give.
And about swallowing....don't worry about it....just do it. It's not that bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): your 13 run your fingers through his hair instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): communication.asking him what he likes is the best way to please him x
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reader, Herugrim762  +, writes (18 July 2009):
well i think everyone's different in what they like and don't like, eg. circumcised guys will like different things to uncirumcised guys. i think maybe get him to show you what he likes by either him guiding your hand or watching him do it, its no embarrassment that you don't know how, everyone's a newbie at some point.
Hope this helps
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