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writes:Started a relationship almost 4 months ago with my b/fWe've started messing around.I try my best not to get covered in anything.Don't like the smell and feel.He puts my hand on the tip of his anatamy.The feel of it makes me feel horrible.I don't want to tell him because he might think i am weird.I also don't know how to tell him that i want to sleep with him, dunno if he will feel the same.Do i mention it now or later...?Anyone help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, Lunaa  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 uncle frank personally i think you should stick to your own generation. Age has nothing to do with when your ready to have sex. If your comfortable and you are really truly in love with your boyfriend and your ready to treat it like a serious committed relationship then your ready for it. . . personally it doesn't sound like you're there yet. But that's just my opinion, wait for awhile and really put some thought into it. That's a piece of who you are and there's nothing more valuable, to give away, than that. Respect yourself and your boyfriend and talk to him about it if you decide your ready i wish you all the best
love,
Lunaa
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 Baby Duck is right, I think that this means that this isn't the time/place.
Don't rush into anything. Listen to your intuition and what it's telling you. Don't get your intuition confused with your urges... deep down, you know the right thing to do, I think. :)
Good luck.
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reader, wherestheinstructions? +, writes (18 July 2009):
Time to end the relationship. If you're unhappy after only 4 months, then things will not get any happier from now.
If you find the 'messing around' stage uncomfortable, then you're not ready for it or anything else with this guy, and maybe other guys too.
You will know when the time is right - this is not it, and this guy is not the right guy.
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reader, uncle Frank  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 Dear 16 or 17 years old: you are not ready for sex!
2. His smell you don't like may be due to the fact that he is dirty or that there is bacteria (germs) or even STD on his penis.
If you go and have sex with him you will end up with that Sexually Transmitted Disease too. It could be Gonorrhea or even Syphilis and you will have to go to a doctor to be cured.
You may end up pregnant and, if he is sick down there, the baby might be born sick or even deformed.
Cut him off and wait till you are older. Don't you have a family you can go to at your age and ask questions from them? Then you could compare with what you hear from 'Dear Cupid' and make your mind up.
Best Wishes
uncle Frank
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