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writes:Hey, im 21 and been working around 3 years at my jobI been training all our new staff and recently started talkin to some guy alot. I couldnt stop thinking about him cos he always makes me laugh n we hav fun, after him flirting with me a few times and getting to know him over the past 4 weeks i plucked the courage up an asked him if i could have his number because he was leaving the job to another workplace but the same company.. he looked at me quite shocked and said what for? i got nervous and told him well we can stay in touch n be friends but i know he knew what i meant lol.he wrote it down on paper and gave it to me and smiled but i felt guilty like i might of pressured him into it or that he might of just been being friendly but now i cant tell because he came come across quite shy. I know they say dont mix business with pleasure but he is leaving in a few days so i thought it could of been the right time to ask if there was any chance.i dont know wether i should text him sometime or not? have i made a mistake? should i just leave it? should i just stay friends? im slightly confused cos i have never asked someone for there number before lolhave any of you girls/guys asked a someone for there number? what happened?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks rayvon :) great help!!
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reader, rayvon  +, writes (19 July 2009):
If there is something you want, that makes you have, that alters your life in a good way then it is not a mistake to pursue it. There is a million different factors that could play a part in this. It is possible that he likes you the same and he is shy and you caught him of gaurd. Or he could be a really friendly guy and just having fun at work and you may not be his type. There is only one way to find out and that is to pursue him as a friend and go from there. So you just have to call him sometime soon and ask how he likes the new job. If you cant get up the nerve for that then try texting it. Either way you will have to always wonder if you just do nothing!
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