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*abbi x
writes:hiia x i got told that if your really like some one , then you feel a "spark" when you kiss your boyfriend and well i felt nothing ! what shall i do ??is this true ?? do you really feel a spark ??thanks x laura :)
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reader, babbi x +, writes (7 August 2009):
babbi x is verified as being by the original poster of the question thaks for all of your replys , i think that it is right to tell my boyfriend how i feel , and see what he thinks is best , for all i know , he could feel the same way !
i will keep you all informed ,
thanks again ,
laura :)
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reader, Lunaa  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 I never understood the "spark" thing... But i do get the butterflies in my tummy when i think of him and he crosses my mind every five seconds and hes the first person i call in the morning and the last that i call before i go to sleep :) and when my day has gone to hell in a hand basket the thought of seeing him or talking to him gets me through it . . . the only boy ive every felt this way about perposed and were now happily engaged...the only advice i can give you is to listen to your own signs and ignore what other people are telling you because some girls get butterflies and somegirls have a spark, but one thing is for sure, you'll know if hes the one. I wish you only the best
love,
Lunaa
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reader, nurul.hana  +, writes (18 July 2009):
I used to have that problem too. But i wouldn't know what i did was the right thing. Thot of sharing it with u. I was with my Ex for almost 3 years. During the last year, I dunno why suddenly i dun have the love feeling anymore.Initially i thot the both of us were too busy with our life. But even when we go out, I felt that i get agitated easily. When we kissed or were just being intimate, deep inside i was just waiting for him to stop so we could go home. I know something was wrong. Worse, I dun missed him. Maybe a little bit of his presence.The 'kiss' was more of a unnecessary moment. But other than that, I could go on with life, with no i love you or whatsoever. Last year, i really thot about it. I think for months. And i knew, the feeling just fade away. I was the one who ended the relationship. It was hard for him. I knew what i did was evil. But i felt, theres no point going on, when i dun feel the willingness of myself going thru life with him till death do us apart. There's more to my problem but its not appropriate to write it down here. If you wanna know, then i can share it with u. u can private mail me..
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (18 July 2009):
 i went through the same thing recently and i was bugging myself about it because all thought i loved my bf i just ddnt feel the butterflys or nothing. we were together for almost 1 yr until i realised it just wasnt right. i dont know if it just wasnt ment to be or whether in my mind i messed it up. sometiems we ask ourselfs questions which we dont have answers to but in reality i think we know the answers we just dont want to believe them. i think you should spend the time enjoying this relationship and walk the path when it comes. good luck aphex xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): x when i kiss my boyfriend i feel like a fluttery feeling in my stomach and i can barely breathe, My friends say im "radiant" around him. Thats not the spark. thats love. "The spark" is the initial Feeling that grows into love. If its not there to start with it never will be xx
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 lol . I have never in my life felt an actual spark in/on my mouth from a kiss.A kiss is meant as a pleasant way to share affection.And as such it should be enjoyable.I think the "spark" you are referring to is simply getting caught up in the mix of emotional and physical feelings as you experience both together.
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