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36-40,
*dareANDdream
writes:Hi guys. I will start off with my name is Deborah, I am 20 years old. I have had an active life and I am ready to settle down. I dont think I am unattractive. I dont have much confidence, but I know I dont look horrible. I am 5'9 120 pounds small waist small chest light blue eyes and short blonde hair. The reason I tell you this is so you can have details. I also am a single mother. I see that being the issue for why I am still single. I dont go for younger men because I know darn well that they are not ready for that. My daughters father is not in her life and never was. I have had my share of boyfriends and jerks.. I am a good girl really. I dont go to clubs or bars or have one night stands. My daughter is 3 and so wonderful. I dont want to be with the man I am supposed to be with and risk my daughter gettin hurt.. My questions is I am ready for " mr right"..? What am I supposed to do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): If you are always looking you will never find him. Be patient he will find you. Always be confident men respond well to a confident, responsible woman. Be independant do not try to find someone who will take care of you and your child men don't want a woman who is looking for a "baby daddy"(not saying that is what you are looking for). If you do start dating someone make sure he knows that you are a good provider for yourself and child and that ultimately you can take care of yourself. If he sees that you are independent he will be more willing to continue on with a long term commitment. When you do go places for singles be confident, stand up straight, smile, laugh, and show everybody in the room that you are not intimidated. Eventually you will find the one but it can be a slow process, you can never give up hope. Being hopeful does not mean always on the prowl looking for him. You will find him at the most unexpected place, maybe while you are pumping your gas, or at the park with your daughter. No matter where you find him or he finds you, you'll know it and everything will fall into place, in due time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): If you are always looking you will never find him. Be patient he will find you. Always be confident men respond well to a confident, responsible woman. Be independant do not try to find someone who will take care of you and your child men don't want a woman who is looking for a "baby daddy"(not saying that is what you are looking for). If you do start dating someone make sure he knows that you are a good provider for yourself and child and that ultimately you can take care of yourself. If he sees that you are independent he will be more willing to continue on with a long term commitment. When you do go places for singles be confident, stand up straight, smile, laugh, and show everybody in the room that you are not intimidated. Eventually you will find the one but it can be a slow process, you can never give up hope. Being hopeful does not mean always on the prowl looking for him. You will find him at the most unexpected place, maybe while you are pumping your gas, or at the park with your daughter. No matter where you find him or he finds you, you'll know it and everything will fall into place, in due time.
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