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writes:Ok well im 15 and ive been with my girlfriend(age 18) for 3 1/2 months and i love her and she loves me. We trust each other with everything and have told eavh other things we havent said before to others.We have been having sexual talks alot lately and she says she want to have sex wit me. Because we are so close n i kinda know how to get her going. And she says this weekend,Valentines Weekend, if we are alone she would have sex with me.I mean i really do want to have sex with her but idk theres something thats weird maybe the fact that she is 3 years older than me and not a virgin, but i really do want to at the same time. Ive actually been tellin her alot for us to do it n now she really wants to. Reply to this Question
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reader, shortstuff4789 +, writes (9 February 2009):
 dont do it. if she really loves you you should wait till you turn 18 too if you really lovve her dont. she would get in serious trouble if you did and someone found out
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reader, carlalalee +, writes (9 February 2009):
Dont jump any to anything, she could just wanna have sex with you and leave. girls use guys too. I dont know just wait longer than 3 months, and explain that to her, She should understand if she really loves you.especially if your a virgin, lose it to someone your age.
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reader, rcn +, writes (9 February 2009):
 Why are you dating an adult? What's wrong with girls your age? I'm not trying to be mean or judgmental because when I was a 15 year old, I would have jumped on a chance to have an 18 year old girlfriend.
There are laws around kids and adults having sex, there are reasons for that. It's up to you, but my initial impression is that she has emotional baggage which will keep this relationship from working long term. Tread lightly.
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