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writes:Do all guys, or most guys act this way the day after sex? I've noticed this with the past (2) relationships. We have an amazing time, sex and all. Then the next day it's like short answers, small talk, a bit distant, and expects for the girl to be all over them. At the end when the guy sees that all is not going as planned. Obviously, gets all lovey-dovey again...What the heck?!? This happened to me..I had sex with my bf a few days ago. Well we are always out having a good time. The next day he picked up to go watch a movie. We both decided we weren't hungry. Then, right before getting to the theatre I said, "Babe, I'm craving ice cream from ***." He's like 'Ok, well what's the difference from this place and the other?' Well he turns the car and we head off..he says, 'All the way over there you should of said something sooner.' I got my ice craving. But the thing is..he's never complained and tries to always please me. :-)So, is this due to us having sex? His attitude changed for a bit..And he wanted things done his way?!?By the way in the theatre he did all these things that made me think...'ok, so it's your way, and that's it! Help!Now we're better but that day was weird. I wonder if this will happen everytime we have sex! Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 February 2009):
 With some guys, and I can't be sure that this is the case, but once some guys "make the conquest," they then become controlling. Not all men are like that, but I've known some guys to brag how they "have a girl under their control" once they have made the score. Prior to that, they do everything to be sweet and wonderful, but afterward assume that they can treat her as they please. The Stones once recorded a song titled "Under My Thumb" and the truth is, sometimes they do have her that way. Perhaps this boyfriend is not the controlling type, so give it awhile. But if he has seemed to "change" over a period of time, then you may have one of those types.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is the first time we slept together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): I'm confused - is this the first time you had sex with him? It's hard to say what's up when I'm not sure what you're saying happened. In short, I don't think all guys act "weird" after sex, no. Maybe he was irritated that day for a thousand other possible things? Or maybe nothing at all was wrong and you're paranoid? It's hard to say, and to be honest it doesn't sound like the end of the world. Are you really comfortable sleeping with a guy you understand this little?
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