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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok, i have a hard time getting boyfriends...or even guys to like me becuz im in a wheelchair. i feel really left out alot becuz all my friends are dating. i've tried dating websites, chat rooms..i dunno what to do ne more...and my friends say they understand but deep down i dont think they really do! please help...
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reader, audie  +, writes (9 February 2009):
 being in awheelchair dsnt mean a thing luv. just be yourself and who knows after getting to know you someone might genuinely like you.its the person inside that matters. dont be in a rush to find love i think you should let it find you. warning- dont be too trusting wen it comes to guys you meet online dont go meeting anyone too early. good luck!
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reader, bluekev  +, writes (9 February 2009):
Tons of women who are not in wheel chairs are having major trouble getting guys. And for one reason. They are not letting guys know they are into them. They act cold but in reality want a boyfriend. Sweet girl if you flirt with a man the right way it won't make any difference weather your in a chair or not. Guys want to date girls that show an interest in men. Flirt with guys show them that you enjoy there company and you will have more guys then you know what to do with.
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reader, Plexi +, writes (9 February 2009):
 first of all PLEASE dont advertize the fact that you are in a wheelchair online because even though there are lots of people out there you may attract the ones who are well less then nice..........predatorial.
At your age guys are stupid and superficial. Just be nice to them, become friends with them, get to know the oppsite sex, get them to get to know you, who knows maybe a friendship now can develop into more over time. I personally know a great girl who was born with spinal bifida, sometimes in a chair, sometimes walks with canes and she met a super nice guy at work, fell in love, they are now married with 2 BEAUTIFUL little girls. It will happen when you least expect it. dont look fore it just wait till the right guy shows up. what's the rush? why date a loser now just to say you have a bf, so he can hurt you when you do find the right guy you'll have issues caused by the loser. better to be single then to settle hun. be a nice girl, win people over with your personalty and make lots of friends for now:)
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