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*sk The Leprechaun
writes:Basically, Theres a girl a couple of years younger than me who likes me. She is openly gay, everyone knows she likes me. I, on the other hand am a coward, I see the way they shun her and I just don't want that to happen to me. She's in isolation untill half term for fingering herself and looking at porn on the school network. So maybe thats another reason why people treat her like a freak, but that doesn't bother me at all, makes me like her more infact.I don't know how to go about this, I really like her, and sometimes I feel like asking her out or just flirting with her but I'm not really sure exactly how I feel about the age gap, which is ridiculous because the other thing stopping me is my obsession with someone who is a lot older than me.To make matters worse, that older person would be my teacher. Now were it any other teacher but this one, I'd think I was being ridiculous if I thought I had any chance whatsoever with her and just go for it with the girl 2 years younger than me who really fanices me, but not this teacher. This teacher does not act like a teacher towards me, more like a friend/stalker. She's always touching me out of context, always bending the rules for me, She secretly gave me her number, and last week she waited till everyone was gone, gave me something to do, then she just took off her clothes saying "Oh, now you'll have to watch me get changed" and paraded around in her bra and panties untill she finally put some joggers and a tank top on!It was torture pretending not to be interested, and I think she caught me looking at her aswell.I only have 5 more months of her. I can't begin to express how much she means to me, losing her will be like losing my best friend, she's the only person who really knows me, and makes me feel special. I really think that theres a possibility that something might happen between us after I leave, so thats why I don't want to be casually going out with the younger girl at that time. And I know our relationship wouldn't be able to get too serious because I wouldn't feel right about having sex with her as she's not 16.I don't know whether to give up on anything happening with my teacher later and just "go out" with the younger girl who I really like, and she REALLY likes me, or forget her in case theres something much more passionate and desired right around the corner.Either way I'm sick of being alone...what should I do?
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reader, Ask The Leprechaun +, writes (12 February 2009):
Ask The Leprechaun is verified as being by the original poster of the question She was getting changed to do some exercises or something.She could have gone behind her desk, to the back of the room, or 10m away to the loo to get changed but she didn't.But for the past two weeks, she's got changed behind the door, whether thats because there have been about 10 other people in the room and she felt that getting changed infront of one wasn't so bad or because she realised it was unprofessional, or because I'm the only one who she'll let see her underwear, I don't know.As for the younger girl, yeah I do like her alot, but you mention getting stick for it, that would mean people at school would know I was bi, or think I was gay, which doesn't bother me at all, I'm perfectly comfortable with my sexuality, I just know that they wouldn't be. Everyone else is fine with my sexuality, but the people at school are incredibly homophobic, particularly to lesbians, as it's a girls school.Do you think I could pursue this without being out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): Hi hun, your teacher sounds like she is behaving completely inappropriately. Like crazykit666 id like to know what situation you were in that allowed her to strut around in her underwear? She sounds like a attention seeker and bad news.
Its always difficuilt fitting in at highschool. Entering into a lesbian relationship is not going to make your experience of highschool any easier. Getting together with this girl because you are tierd of being alone isnt fair on you or her.However if you like this girl, are comfortable with who you are and have support(friends, family etc)go for it. You may take some stick in the beginning but in the long run being true to yourself is usually best. Go for it! and let us know how it goes hun. Sarah x
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