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Is he just horny or does he actually want something with me?

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Question - (9 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So i've hooked up with this guy twice, and i kinda like him. hes just a huge flirt, and seductive. And then last night, i went to a party, and he was drunk and flirting with a bunch of girls, then he came up to me and started dancing with me, and said "i love this song, especially with you" and "damn your a good dancer" and then took my hand and put it on his penis, and through his pants i could tell he had a boner. nothing happened but i cant stop thinking about it. I cant tell if hes just fooling around, or he likes me, or he just wants to hook up again but go even further this time.

and the thing that confused me more is that i heard he was being like that with a lot of girls.

So is he just horny like i think he is? or does he maybe want something with me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009):

When i'm pissed out my head thats the type of thing id do to any good looking girl to try and pull her. hes blatently just after sex there!

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2009):

natasia agony aunti think his hormones are probably going crazy ... so yes, i think it sounds like he is generally very horny ... but i also think it sounds like he does like you.

the only problem is that if you were with him, i don't know if he would be able to stop himself flirting with others as well. it could be a recipe for misery for you. to be honest, if there's anyone else you like, try to focus on them and forget him ... he sounds dangerous.

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A female reader, osospecial United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2009):

I don't want to hurt you but if you say he does that with a lot of girls then maybe he is as you say horny, i think he does like you and wants you sexually. and you should no that most boys will try something sexual with their girlfriends once they get comfortable around them. some just take it slow and some go ahead and do it. but you should remember that if you are not ready for anything then you should tell him. the best thing to do is ask him what he wants. with the answer he gives you, you should be able to work out if he likes you or not... if you want to ask me anything directly email here at Dear cupid and I'll try and reply to you as soon as possible.

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