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Should I buy her something for V-Day and try to reconnect with her?

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Question - (9 February 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 36-40, *rokay writes:

Hello,

Im a little confused about something. I met this girl last year. She's a cool and fun girl, a lil bit reserved. we dated for 2 months and started liking each other. However, she started confusing me. For instance, I was getting mixed signals from her which didnt help me make the next move. She wasnt calling, was always busy when we had to chillin or hang out. I thought maybe she didnt like anymore and just wanted to be friends so i decided to just chill out and stop calling her and move on.

Then, she told her friends and mine about me not calling her and stuff. We had a talk about it and she kinda changed and things started getting better. But it didnt last for long. She started acting the same way and just got tired of it. I told her how i felt about her and this situation. I finally decided to take a break from her. I havent called since dec 19/2008. I see her on campus. we just say Hi. But yesterday,I said to her and didnt stop and kept going and She stopped me and asked me why I stopped calling her or talk to her like we use to and stuff like that. I tried tp shake her hand and she refused and Huged me in return.

I still have some feelings for her but i dont know what to do.

The Valentine Day is comin soon AND I dont know if I should get her something and see if i should try to reconnect with her.

Please, I need an answer.

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