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writes:Would a 60 year old guy who thinks he's a high roller play games with me just to get his you-know-what sucked if he has a steady girlfriend? (Yeah, I'm stupid - denounce me if you want to get your rocks off that way, but I really just need a shoulder to cry on)He invited me over for sex. He was my one and only f-buddy for awhile (there's no other way to put it) and he was very good at it, so I went. Hadn't seen him in a long time (3 months) and so, I was pretty turned on. Well, things seemed pretty routine...a few beers and I was doing what I love (oral on him) and I asked him to make it taste better. That's when he ran upstairs to get a condom. I looked at him and said, "Do you think I'm a whore?" He said, "Well, I don't know where you've been." What the hell is up with that? By the way, he has had a steady girlfriend throughout our affair which didn't bother me - she doesn't know about what he does with me.He tried to hold me, kiss me and offered to do oral on me. By now, I was so hurt, I sobbed and left. But, before leaving, I told him my last intimate relationship was 3 months ago and it was with him (true). I then told him I'd always cared more for him than he did for me. I asked if he had anything to say. He said,"I have nothing to say." I left.I don't want another f-buddy. It hurts too much. Today he called and said he'd call me later - well, he didn't. Is he playing games? Or, is it as I suspect - he really doesn't care about me. Or, is it possible that he enjoys hurting me (not beyond the realm of this guy - a while ago, one fella took me aside and said, "He really treats his women badly.") Lastly, I sense that he is out pursuing someone new. I'd really like to dump him for good, but he keeps popping up like gas in a bathtub. Help me get out of this endless loop of demoralizing crap - a few days of merciless pursuit from him (for which I am starved) is followed by a week or two of neglect leaving me feeling like hell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): WOW! If I didn't know better I'd think we were with the same damn man!
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reader, happy24birthday  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Please contact me privately. We have a lot in common, but I don't feel like getting blasted on this website again. You're not alone and my shoulder holds teasrs well.
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