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*ackieGee
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year. I'm 19 and he is 27. I know there is quite and age difference but when we met i just fell in love with who he was. Sometimes he acts like he's 12 though. He's very stubborn and can't ever admit to being wrong. Our relationship has been rocky. He gives me an attitude for no reason sometimes and when I ask him what's wrong he says nothing. He talks about girls a little too much I think and makes me believe he's had quite a past with women especially cause he's older than me. I broke up with him twice both times for him talking to other girls online. I took him back after a week because I missed him and felt lonely. A couple months past and we got in a fight so he broke up with me. We were apart for three weeks and he asked me back out and I said yes. I was miserable without him. I was so happy when he asked me and things were great for a couple days but now they are not so good. I always tell myself some day he will change but I think deep down inside he probably won't. Why can't men stay sweet and charming like they always are in the beginning of a relationship or at least stay somewhat the same? I don't know what to do, I wish he would just treat me GOOD.
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reader, VampyricHybrid +, writes (6 February 2009):
 I agree with Jay. My relationship was about the same, he was sweet and always there for me. He would talk to me and always care. But, now he's changed alot, he ignores me, never cares, never says sweet things. He started to show his true colors, which weren't as lovely as he manipulated them to be. Talk to him about everything, put your foot down. If he can't respect you then. Then, forget him and try to find someone who will not hurt you. It's hard,I know. Whenever you love someone, you can't let go. But, sometimes it's the best for both people.
-Good Luck.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (6 February 2009):
 well first or all, he probably wont change, if you two keep breaking up then chances are you will still keep breaking up in the future until one of you gets sick of it. secound, people put there best side out there during the begining of the relationship, after about 3 mounths, sometimes less sometimes more, people show who they really are. you might not relize it but you probably changed too.
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