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writes:was i being two-faced?i was very close friends with this girl. due to my fault, now we are not friends.when we were friends, i had a guy friend as well.my friend did not like this guy friend and felt he is very mean. in time even i started to notice that my guy friend was mean and i just was putting up wit his meanness all along. so, even i distanced myself from this guy.now, my friend (the girl) and i both disliked this guy and even i would say he is a mean guy and i would also bitch about him.later this guy came to me to patch things up. i told him i felt he was only always being mean. i told him i needed time to think about all this. i told my friend (the girl) about all this and that i told him i needed time since i am not too sure if he changed and if i should be his friend. and even when telling this girl friend that he came to me, i did say things like i still feel he is a mean guy etc. now, i patched up with him after some time.soon after, this girl and i had a HUGE arguments and now we are not friends.was i being two-faced with this guy friend? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): If you can't bitch about guys to your female friends then who else will you tell your woes to?You vented some of your problems.You got back with him.So what?Its your life.Live it the way you want to.You cannot live your life by your friend's terms.
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reader, truelove  +, writes (6 February 2009):
honestly?? yes!!! the fact you was slagging him off to the girl friend then patch things up with him and basically act like nothing is wrong im not suprised she isnt happy with you!! you admit he is mean then bitch about him to this girl then go patch things up with him!!!!! i wouldnt be happy with you either!
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