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writes:I have been going out with my boyfriend for three months now. And he broke up with me once because he had "confusion" in his life according to him.We got back together now. But I still can't trust him.When he told me that he wants to keep this relationship when we go to college, I said 'okay' but inside of my mind, I felt like he just sweet-talks to me and really doesn't mean it.And when we don't hang out as much as we did because of our busy schedule, I feel like I am abandoned again and I get worried if he is going to break up with me again.The thing that really made me seriously considered breaking up with him is that, today after class, he just walked away without even saying goodbye to me and went to talk to his ex-girlfriend, which made me feel so annoyed. Don't misunderstand me; I am friends with his ex-girlfriends and stay pretty cool about his past relationships.He didn't really do anything wrong, but especially after breakup, I just can't trust him more and more.I just keep making these suspiscions and worries if he is going to break up with me or if he cheats on me or he may think I am too easy, when he really doesn't do anything. It's just that the frequency of texting/hanging out/talking after class has been reduced, but it really is not a big problem, right?Am I just being over-sensitive? Should I talk to him about this? I like him, but I feel terrible not trusting him anymore and make me wonder why I am even going out with this guy right now if I can't trust him.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (6 February 2009):
 i think your probably freaking out over nothing. if you guys are back together then that means your the one he wants to be with. but if its bugging you this much, it would be a good idea to ask him how he really feels and to tell him how youv been feeling lately.
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Trust is everything!
If he is supposed to be your boyfriend, and walks away without speaking to you, yet goes and talks to his ex, There is something wrong.
You deserve better! If you are his girl, you deserve his 100%!
Worrying about tomorrow is no way to live. A healthy relationship looks towards tomorrow, and the things we will share. Not "will he still be here"?
Again, you deserve better. Find someone who will treat you right!
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