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writes: I dont understand this at all. This guy I know said that he wants something long term and he is not into hooking up anymore. But he still parties every weekend, why? I thought that guys party in order to hook up with lots of girls. I mean I know when I go partying, I want some attention from males lol Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, rbrbrb +, writes (7 February 2009):
Nooooooooo! No way......people don't just party to get with someone at all....partying is partying. It probably happens more at parties because people are drunk and you know what i mean.....Hope all goes ok x
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reader, Plexi +, writes (6 February 2009):
Some guys also party cause they cant sit still(it's part of who they are)they want their cake and they want to eat it too. my ex was like that as well. they want the security of a nice girlfriend but they still want to go out and have fun with their buddies. Be careful,if thats who he is he may continue this until all his buddies get married and settle down and he has no one to go out with. if you are like that as wel then its great but if you want this and he wants that then maybe you should decide what's important to you. Dont let hi waste your time or you waste his time. you do not want to wake upand be 30 and then realize that's how he is and then break up and start all over with a new one. tell him to choose his lifestyle and then you make a choice.
good luck hun:)
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (6 February 2009):
Some people just go partying to have fun. Just because you go out on weekends doesn't mean you are looking for one thing. I am in a relationship but i still go out and party with my friends.
This guy just wants to settle down with someone and have fun at the same time.
Olivia.
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