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writes:There is a guy I have fallen head over heals with and he seems to like me, he stares at me kinda funny, anyway we always chat when we are alone but never when anyone else is around. We have arranged to go out together and he wants to book a hotel (we both live in diferent town and with our folks) so we can spend the night together and possibly the following day together. The thing is I think he just wants sex and I want more, should I go out with him, see how we get on maybe go back to the hotel and just say take things slower because I am not "easy", or do you think he would be annoyed and I should just be straight with him. Would a guy be happy with just a kiss and cuddle. Reply to this Question
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 if he really cares about you it wont matter wht you do...
he'll just be happy he's with you..and if it feels like he just wants sex then maybe he's just using you
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (8 February 2009):
if he really cares about you it wont matter wht you do...
he'll just be happy he's with you..and if it feels liek he just wants sex then maybe he's just using you
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 February 2009):
Logically I would say you have to be clear up front. But that would be horribly presumptuous.
You could ask a question in that direction and see if he is reassuring about it. So just say something like "You know that we are sharing a hotel room? Well I just didn't know what you were expecting....."
If he opens up either way then you will have your answer, if he doesn't then you can change the subject.
The other option is that you could simply book yourself a separate hotel room. Problem solved!
Good Luck!! xx
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