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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:I've had 4 failed relationships and all of them didn’t turn out well at all.. in the beginning it would be soo nice.. but then after a while all the phone calls would stop and it seem like am the only one tryng to make it work. trying to force them to talk about their feelings and how they feel about me and the relationship (I found out that all my relationships had this problem) and eventually I would just give up on them and we would break up eventually..I give them space, I don’t take them for granted and I always care about them.. but it seems like there is something I am doing wrong.. and I really don’t know what it is.. cos they always leave me for another girl and then months later they would call me up to see me and tell me how much they miss me.. but I never fall for it cos they always break my heart.. what could I be doing wrong? In the beginning it all seems sweet and then a while they pull away (get distant) from me.. I feel soo frustrated and sad cos I don’t know what am doing wrong... they say am pretty and my friends says my personality is beautiful but I don’t know what is going on... my best friend says am too nice and I fall very quick... how do I stop been too nice..? Am I ever going to find someone to love me... a guy that would open up and talk about his feelings and how he feels with me??
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reader, uluvme0723  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Thing is your young. Young guys don't want to talk about feelings. Yes they may exist, but rarely do they voice them. If you want to know, don't be so up front. Beat around the bush. Lets say you want to know where you stand with guy. Don't just blurt those words out.[Moderator's note: Please avoid writing in all caps, thank you.]
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