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Dating: Help and advice

Now he tells me that he used to like me, after all this time, so what's the deal now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I was once close to this guy I loved him even, but we were never boyfriend and girlfriend. We hooked up a couple of times, (I was younger). I just assumed it wasn't going anyhwere, so I never told him how I felt. I've always regretted making that...

Spending money on a website just for sex with a stranger...wouldn't that make me no better than a person who hires prostitutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Do I spend money on a website just for sex with a stranger? I found a site, which is set up for people to share exactly what they're looking for (sex wise) and they can browse members who they match with. A short time after joining, I got a...

I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...

I'm just not attracted to women that are of the same race as me. I've tried, but it just doesn't work.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Hi, not sure where to start on this one. I don't know why but I'm just not attracted to women that are of the same race as me. I've tried but it just doesn't seem to work for me. Is this so wrong? I seem to be attracted to white girls. I have an A...

I'm trying to move on, but can't get my ex out of my mind. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am insecure about a past relationship and am stuck in between the decision of getting back together with him. We dated for around a year and we're in love, still are even though we aren't together anymore. It was a pretty rocky relationship whic...

He's 40 years older than me, I'm 17 and I love him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Hi! I am just like this girl here too. I am attracted to a guy who is 40 years older than me, i am 17. He is attracted to me too but not for my body. We have alot in common, for example, i am into the era he grew up in which is the 1960s and alot...

Why would he get mad over something so stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - ok, so i used to talk to this guy and we just recently. stopped talking. Might i add that i did not do anything wrong, he stopped talkin 2 me two be with someone else and then he called me back..but i felt like i was being used so i told him that i ...

Is he trying to make me jealous? Does he like me? I'm really confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I really like a guy in my year at college we are both 18. im not sure if he feels the same i am getting mixed signals, one time he defended me from someone who was about to hurt me and then says "if he had touched you i would have punched him!" then ...

We had an affair while she was in a relationship, should I give her space after her recent break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Just after some advice on a confusing situation! I'll try to keep it quick. I walked away from an affair i had with a girl who was in a relationship. It was very intense emotonally and physically but was a dirty secret. We both are good people but ...

I was agitated at the fact that he told me to fructify my opportunity abroad without him! I wouldn't have ever considered leaving him anyway! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am in a HUGE dilema. I'll try to keep this as short as possible... I have been with my boyfriend 3 years. We initally had a rocky relationship, but now everything is perfect, and i've never stopped loving him. Everything is great. I rece...

Would great sex make guys want a relationship?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ok guys if you have had mind blowing sex with a girl on a one night stand are you more likely to want to have a relationship with her? ...

I'm 17yrs old and ready to have a baby with my boyfriend. He'll do it to make me happy but I know he's not ready!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 April 2008 (?) - i'm 17 years old, and I live with my grandparents and my boyfriend of two and a half years who is also 17. I want nothing more than to have a baby, I know all the responsibilties because I grew up with my sister who had a baby at 17. I think i'm ...

My boyfriend says he loves me and doesn't care if we never have sex again. Should I believe him? I have a low sex drive!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - my partner and i have been together for nearly six years. over the last year or so, my sex drive has completley vanished. its very rare i feel "in the mood". my boyfriend tries to initiate sex a couple of times a week, to which i just ignore him,...

Is it over exposure that's causing him to not find me attractive anymore? He's looking elsewhere!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Here's the thing, last week my boyfriend and I spent A LOT of time together, going places and being together and it felt good, EXCEPT for him it doesn't seem to count for anything!!!! He says he's not attracted to me (although he certainly was a ...

My fiancee wants me to forgive him and accept his baby with another girl!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we are engaged and he is with me everyday, never spent a night away apart from 3 times in the whole 2 years to work. The last time he went away was January and I have just found out he got a girl pregnant. ...

I'm so confused, I've been surpressing my feelings for my co-worker, but since we kissed, my feelings are back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I work with the most gorgeous man I have ever known, and I don't just meant physically. He is is just a wonderful person. I get butterflies when he talks to me and when we sit down to lunch together we always just click with eachother. We're good ...

Can casual sex end up as the real thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Has anyone had a FWB relationship which has ended up as the real thing?...

Losing her is the last thing I want to do so how do I stop pushing her away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - I have put my girlfriend through a lot with my insecurties and jealousy. She has lots of male friends which drives me crazy. They all look better than me and I know they aren't childish like me. It's like the slightest thing comes up and I get all ...

How do I get her number without looking desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Hi, i ask a somewhat similar question a few days back, but i added on to it. I know handing a girl your number is a bad thing, makes them think your desperate or whatnot but what if the only time you see this girl ,its only for a minute each day....

My ex is now back with her ex and they may be getting married! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - hi, my girlfriend broke up with some months back simply because she heard from people things we had together without confronting me to confirm if it was true or not (i got to know about this from her friend). now she's gone back to her ex, i heard ...

I'm bi-curious. How do I meet girls other than online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - hello im bicurious but i dont know how to meet girls i have no problem meeting guys but i would like to experiment and explore my sexuality so if anybody has some good tips on how to meet girls (except the internet) that would be great ...

How do I ask my boyfriend to touch me "down there"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I have gone down on my boyfriend multiple times. He asked if he can touch me but I was uncomfortable at the time so I said no, but now I'm ready. How do I ask him?...

His friends and family think I'm wonderful so why is he so hurtful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Advice please! My guy grew up in the town we live in. I did not - He and I have been together three years - He tells some I am his girlfriend he tells others we are just friends everyone thinks we are husband and wife! I am not even sure what we are ...

Confusion, mixed signals, what the heck?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

28 April 2008 (?) - So, I told this guy that I've known for 3 years that I like him. What do I do now? Funny thing is, it wasn't even me that started this whole thing. There I was minding my own business, and wham, he blindsides me with a barrage of hi hunnies and a...

How to ask a girl out - please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - well.. How are all my favourite people doing ha? I need help! Theres this girl! She is single... Im single.. We see each other a lot i guess! We kissed once before. We both said that we would love to do it again.. So ja heres the help i need. uh...

Perhaps he just thinks of me as a "pal," but to call me "doll face" and "beautiful" and hug me like that messes with my emotions!! Your view on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Could someone give me an opinion on my "relationship-situation". At the end of Jan, I intimated to my flatmate that I liked him and it was essentially unreciprocal. Nevertheless, he has continued to confuse me by wrestling with me, teasing me, ...

He has a habit of planning our date than change his mind to go out with his friends. What should I say/do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I recently started dating this guy. We have been together 4 2months and he has already started thinking long term. However, he has recently moved into a flat with three other girls, one of which he had feelings for at the beginning of the year. I'm ...

He wants me to move AGAIN, for him. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I moved in together and lived together for almost a year. Things got rocky and we broke up. Now we are living in opposite sides of the state and we have been talking a lot. Our communication has really improved and we have ...

How could she be happy and having fun after completely breaking my heart?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Ok so I have a problem. I know its just stupid but I was dating this girl for about 6 months and she broke up with me over the phone right before I had to be at work and she never gave me a reason or anything like that. I never had any closure to ...

Why does he never want a lift home from me? Could this mean something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - ok so ive been with my bf for about 2 years now and we both started uni this year. he doesnt have his lisence so he catches the bus everyday there and back. when i finish the same time as him i offer him lifts home aswell as his mates if they r w...

When is it okay to tell her I love her? I don't want to freak her out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - hey my gf and I (I'm 18 she's 15)just started going back out about 10 days ago. Before then in January we went out for a month then broke up because we wanted to get to know each other better. and from then till now we have developed into best ...

Why do I always want a challenge and reject a man who shows interest in me? It's a pattern...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Why do I always want a challenge and reject a man who shows real interest in me? I seem to have a pattern of behavior in relationships. I always go after the "bad boys", the ones who for a variety of reasons, just aren't emotionally available. ...

My boyfriend is aroused at the sight of raw meat. Is he mad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 mths has the strangest fetish. He become aroused at the sight of raw meat. Every time I cook dinner (we live together), he needs to go up and have sex when he sees me preparing the meat. Is he mad?...

So many women would pay to see me naked, so how can I change her "errors" about premarital sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - I am hoping that some of the aunts on this site can help me with my problem. I am an extremely handsome, smart and funny 28 year old male. I have an excellent job and earn a very substantial sum of money indeed. I have two Ferraris and live in a ...

Where do I stand with this married man? I need to know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I just need advice. I am so confused. I have fallen DEEPLY for a man. We are friends, but we are both married. YES I know it's wrong to get involved with a married man and I would NEVER cheat on my husband. I have been thinking of leaving my ...

We are FWB, then I see her facebook, she has a boyfriend! Should I ignore her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Alright, so I'm wondering what I should do here... I've been friends with benifits with this girl for a while now, we were starting to get pretty close, and I figured we'd be going out soon, but she started doing stuff with other guys (a few of '...

I'm ashamed of myself and my scars. How can I get over this and talk to people, especially girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - im 14 im very shy i find it very hard to talk to anyone especialy girls ive never actualy kissed a girl ive had 1 girlfreind and that went no where i really like a girl who i met over the internet ive met her once i dont think she likes me back...

This goes out to the guys for their for advice on how you like to be pleasured, I need to learn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I want to please my man in any way I can, I want to keep up to date with moves and all! Any suggestions. I don't want him to ever feel bored, and I want him to feel as if he is hitting jackpot when we play our little sport, please go into de...

I am getting back into the dating scene after a divorce. How can I ever trust men again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am a 34 year old nurse who divorced her husband just last year. Over the past couple of months, I have been trying to re-enter the dating scene. I joined a dating site and went on a couple of dull dates. Then, almost three weeks ago, I finally ...

I feel like a temporary girlfriend to him. Should I keep my distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5969 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I'm my boyfriend's first serious girlfriend and his "first". (We're in our twenties but he's several years older.) He told me he loves me and I told him he doesn't. We all think we love our first serious partners but then we later realize that it ...

How do I make myself realize that nothing will ever happen between me and this girl of my dreams?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - I love her, I go to class with her, work with her, and also hang out with her at least 4 days out of a week. But I don't think she reciprocates the feelings. The problem is that whenever I talk to her or look into her eyes, all rational thought is c...

How can I keep money from breaking us up again? We are supposed to pool our resources, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Hi guys, so i'm redating my ex. i'm 30 he is 36. It's all going really well, and i'm happy with how things are. There is just one problem- money- again. We were in low pay jobs before and didnt have enough cash to live from. we borrowed from fa...

He keeps bringing up my past and spoiling our relationship, please help me sort this out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I'm confused... My BF had broken up with me, not the first time, really... I just don't get it! I love him very very very veeeery much! And I wish we could sort this out, I don't know what to do/think/feel... He broke up with me because he gets...

I'm really falling for this guy, but I don't know what his game is, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I have become friends with a 37yr old guy over the past ten months (i am a 33yr old single mum with a 4yr old son). We met on an internet dating site and he initiated the contact at first with a nice email. We continued converstaion for several week...

How can two people be sexually involved yet not have a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am confused about something. Nowadays, it seems quite normal for a single man to have sex with a single woman without any need for a relationship. This is something I fundamentally cannot understand. How can someone - man or woman - actually...

I'm scared for me and my girlfriend, can you help, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Last December, I met this lady in a bar. We became friends and eventually started a relationship. A month ago, she disappeared without a trace. I figured she'd run off with someone else. Then two weeks ago, I got a letter from her saying that she ...

Why do men lie??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Me and this guy hit it off perfectly, there was never a dull moment between us. We loved being around each other, but over the course of our relationship he would lie about the stupidest things...and just not tell me the truth. He told me that he ...

I don't know if I completely trust my boyfriend, as he lives far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I'm dating this guy that lives very far and i'm not sure if i completely trust him. What should i do???...