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Dating: Help and advice

I like a girl in my class, but I don't know if she's cheating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - there is a girl in my class and i like her but now i think shes cheaating on me. i heard of guy from another school she said. she also told me she likes someone but i'm not sure... she still nags me and calls my name for no reason. but she once ...

I love her but, she is telling me that my parents may not accept her because she has a kid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - I am in love with a girl. She is married and has a 1 year old kid. she is two years older than me. Her relationship with her husband is not good. Before we were just friends. But now i have told her that i love her. She also told me that she loves ...

Do guys think I'm a loser because I'm a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - I am 20 years old, and I am still a virgin. It's not because of religious reasons; I have dated before but I just haven't found the person to do it with. What I am fearing now is how guys see virgins. I have always watched TV and movies that basi...

I "freeze up" around my crush....what can I talk about to be more comfortable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Long story short, I tend to freeze up and get nervous in front of my crush, even though during other times I am a pretty easy going and funny person. So from what he has seen, I pretty much look like a really dull person with no personality, because ...

Does he really like me because he defends me from a wierdo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - I quite like a boy in my year and we went to a party together yesterday, so we got there and a weirdo from school came up to me and started going on about that i wasn't invited (which i was) he was getting quite close as though he was going to hit ...

Why do older guys always try to get at me? I can't find a boyfriend at my school...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - This year it seems like all my friends have boyfriends or love interests and i don't have anyone. I don't think i'm ugly or unattractive. I get compliments on my appearance. It seems like older guys are always trying to get at me but no guys at my ...

I'm developing feelings for a gorgeous guy at work! Is this okay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - A while ago, I met an amazing guy through work. It started off as just a business relationship but we ended up becoming quite good friends and I began to really fancy him. He made me laugh constantly, we had so much in common in terms of interests ...

Should a couple share ALL their secrets? What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Do you think a couple should share everything in their mind? All their secrets? ...

I don't want him to be offended but I don't like to "swallow". Can I spit it out in the toilet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Okay here's my problem. I love giving my boyfriend head because i know he enjoys it so much. But, I can't stand the taste of come. With my ex boyfriend, he told me when he was going to come and I just switched and used my hand. But my boyfrie...

Should I hold back my feelings if he's dating another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - I like a guy whos in the same year as me in college!!! The only problem is that hes got a girlfriend of 9 months!!!! I've been friends with him for about 18 months and we became good friends about a year ago, he told me a couple of times over ms...

I have a really low self esteem problem that my boyfriend doesn't understand

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - I have a really low self esteem problem that my boyfriend doesnt understand, im always trying to find new ways of how i can make myself 'look better'. Im a size 18, and i just feel fat all the time, i have an eating dissorder as a result, my boyfr...

Why when I try to get my girl friend to try oral sex she just sits there and gives me weird looks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - here's my problem... when i try to get my girl friend to try oral sex she just sits there and gives me weird looks and so i ask her wat and shes like i dont know and so i ask her how does she not know and she doesnt really say anything so.. if ...

My boyfriend hasn't called! Should I be patiently waiting? Is there a reason for this delay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Hi! I've been with my boyfriend for quite some time. We are very close and have alot of good memories together and I couldn't ask for more. I love him so much. But, this is what I found out strange. He hasn't contacted me for 2 days now (nor...

Trying to have sex but he 'can't get it in' and it really hurts, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 20 years old and I tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time and he was unable to get in me. He tried but just could not get in and it hurt everytime he tried. Is this normal for the first time or do you think there ...

Am I sticking with him because I hate the idea of being alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (?) - Hi, I'm really confused I fell in love with one guy and we were best friends for so long but we decided, well i decided, that it would be best that we didn't see eachother so we didn't ruin our friendship. Now i'm with another guy, i really do like ...

Will he break up with me? Should I break up with him? Where is this going to lead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been with me for almost two years. We have had issues, and it seemed like we were working it out, but now, I don't know what to think about it. Sorry if this turns out to be long... We met through a mutual ex friend. This...

Do guys mind if when you ruffle their hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Hi, this may sound a little random but i was just wondering... do guys mind when you ruffle their hair or run your fingers through it? i was just fantasising about doing that to a guy i like today and thought, cos i'm a girl, if someone ruffled my ...

Am I right to say he just wanted sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - I am an Asian lady and dated a Caucasian guy for almost 2 months. He's the same age as me. I recently backed off from seeing him as I felt he didn't put in enough effort to make the relationship work or go further. It seems he's only interested in ...

Help me analyze this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - there's this guy i talk to a lot on facebook/myspace, and he's left a couple flirty messages before. half the time when i see him in the hallways he does cute stuff instead of just saying hi. he asks me to dance at dances. he doesnt give me ...

Is this guy really into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - ok so me and this guy that i had met in the club 2 or 3 weekends ago has been talking on the phone tome since then.he is a nice person to talk to but the only reason that we talk on the phone is bcuz i gave him my number when he called i was so ...

Long distance ends with a low blow but we can't cut off...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - Apologies as this is a bit long but I thought readers would need some good detail. My relationship with my Ex (call her M) had been a year and a half. Being long distance with her main home in Australia we had met up in England and she spent mo...

Can you love two people at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - hi Ok well i go out with this amazing boy he means the world to me, and i truly love him and he said he felt the same. We see each other every day at school and we meet at speedway every Thursday. Recently he's been acting really depressed and unh...

He likes me but said he doesn't want me to fall in love with him, what's up with that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - I'm seeing a man who told me he likes me so much but he does not want me to fall in love with him and he does not want to ever hurt my feelings. What's up with that? he's Mexican and I'm American....

Pregnant with his baby and he's cheated on me! He's only with me for the baby. Should I move on? Or forgive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Ok So Im 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend has cheated on me. I feel so hurt and angry. He has told me that he has relly strong feelings for the other woman. And He is only staying with me for the baby. All I do is cry and I dont eat. He calls me a ...

Should I walk away from this? Or is there something still there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Have posted before,but would like advice on situation.BF of year told me not in love with me and just wants to be friends,he was having sexual problems and I feel this is the reason for him ending it as he thinks i woudl eventually.I met with him ...

Is sex with someone while separated classified as cheating?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - is sex with someone while separated classified as cheating? i have been separated from my husband for 3 months and met a guy who i known from my past as a friend and colleague, he has a partner (but he has informed me that he no longer shared a bed ...

At what point should you give up on a crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Sometimes I feel that it is just a waste of time crushing on somebody, because in the end, he just won't like you. It's not even because I don't have confidence in myself that I have a chance with him, it's just that I see him with interacting with ...

How can I let go of this fear and just start being my true self in front of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - I am normally a fun to be around person and easy going person who is also funny (I think), but the problem is that you really have to get me to be comfortable with the people before I am able to do this. I have a huge crush on this guy I know, and I ...

I finally told him I like him and now its awkward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - okay,so i met this guy on myspace through an old friend.i started talking to him and it was awsome.i told him everything and he told me everything and i could just open up to him and he makes me laugh and smile and i get butterflies when i talk to ...

He just wants me as a friend now-I'm confused, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Hi there me again, the guy that i've met 2 years ago invited me to his place last night, he stay's on a farm a few km outside town when I got there he has lighten the fire place and got us a nice dvd we were lying on the coough watching the dvd he ...

How to approach a "shy" girl???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - How would you like a guy to approach you if you were shy??? I have a girl in my class who i am interested in, and i think she is interested in me too. everytime i turn to look at her, she is looking back at me, and my friends all say she looks at...

I'm engaged but have an irrepresable infatuation with someone else. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - I have been with my fiancée for six years now. We got engaged last year. I love her dearly and want to be with her. The trouble comes when I want to have my cake and eat it too. I'm just not sure how to control these feelings. You see there is ...

Did he really like me, or did I just assume he was flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6075 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - So here's the deal. I met a guy, a great guy. Funny, smart, tall and handsome. The works. We met while we were both working at the same location, for a few weeks. I think he "attempted" to flirt with me, jokes, teasing, poking me, asking me ...

I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves m.!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves me. i don't know how anyone can love some one so quickly. im kinda freaking out, he wants me to say it back, but i don't know if i love him, or even want to keep on dating him. what ...

I have feelings for my best friends' cousin who lives in the same house. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6075 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, I was at my best friend's house a few days ago and his cousin came into the room that me and my friend were in, and she acted different to usual, less moody, more open with her own feelings rather than thinking of me from a ...

I've just met a girl, but I haven't dated for so long, any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - I just met a girl, and I really like her. I am not trying to just "score". I really want to go out and have fun with this girl. I haven't dated for so long, I really have no ideas of what to do on a first date? I would like to hear from both w...

She pushes me away sometimes,and I'm scared of losing her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Me and my G/F have been together for a few years. We have been through a lot. She is very sweet and loving, but sometimes she pushes me away. I love her so much and I am in love, we are in love. Soon we are going to move when were old enough and ...

Which one of the two do I choose???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - Hi there. There's these two girls I like but i don't know which one i should focus more attention on. One is incredibly beautiful and has a good personality (we'll call her sarah), and the other is still attractive but not quite as good looking, ...

Tell me what I'm supposed to do, I feel as tho' I'm in Limbo.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - What should I do now? My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. It started off really well, Then a major problem at work put a toll on our relationship. My ex-boss was determined to get rid of me and went through great length...

Any sweet ideas on asking her to the prom without going over the top?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - I want to ask this girl to the prom. She's a friend but never goes near boys or accepts to go with them anywhere. But because I'm her friend I want to try my luck. Any sweet ideas to ask her without going over the top?...

Help me! I'm going mental over this girl!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6075 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - Hi guys. I'm nearly 18 with a serious problem. I've liked a friend of mine for nearly 2 yrs now. She is beautiful in the inside n outside. I asked her out but she said she didn't feel the same. We are slowly bein friends again. It's been a month but ...