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Dating: Help and advice

I gotta boyfriend but I love to flirt! is that bad???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (?) - I gotta boyfriend but I love to flirt! is that bad???...

I broke up with my girlfriend but she still wants to mess around with me and have sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - hey I broke up with my girlfriend she said that she is too young to have a stable relationship but she still wants to mess around with me and have sex. She doesn't mess around with other guy she just talks to them but she don't want to text me on ...

Number 1 or number 2???? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Hey Y'all, Right I know your probably gonna think I'm "too young for a relationship" but I've recently been in two (not at the same time) but near enough after each other. First of all and I know we didn't last long but I was with my ex, (Lets cal...

I really want us to get back together, should I try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Hey, me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday. He dumped me because he couldn't stand everyone starting drama. I kinda played a part in that because I asked if he was gonna dump me before it happened. I was just really mad myself that day because of ...

Could I be gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - I was looking for some heterosexual porn trailers to masturbate 2 and I did I was masturbating and a gay/bi trailer came on and I continued now I'm questioning my orientation. I have a girlfriend and I'm usually more excited but I wasn't and more ...

I want to make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I want to make out with my boyfriend but i'am really scared to bc i have never done it before and the pressure is really starting to get to me bc all my friends have done but not me and i'am really scared!! what do i do????...

How can I get my long-distance relationship back after I ended it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - ok my question is short and simple..i broke up with my bf long long time ago..we just stopped talkin to each other..its been months since i last spoke to him..we kinda had a long distance realtionship..i wasnt ready for 1 then but i am now and i ...

How do I give a blow job without gagging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - i turned 16 in december and my boyfriend turns 16 in june. we would have been have sex for a year June 15 this year. for his birth day we will be at band camp together and he has been asking if we could do something for his birthday and when i asked ...

I'm 16 and in love! Do you think he'll wait for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - i've been dating this guy for 3 wonderful years but now i have to move! i'm 16 and deeply inlove with him so we decided to try to make the 2 hour distence work. well now i ran into a snag i have the chorse to either ask my dad if i can move in with ...

Is this true love like everyone says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I always tried to make him be more in love with me(as my friends said so) by trying to brake up and make him beg me not to do it but i truly loved him and we've had sex..We've always been planing ...

Things have changed so...should we give it another try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - My ex and I are very close friends and love eachother more than anything. We are in a very confusing situation for both of us. We are not officialy together, but we do everything that a couple does. Things like we talk or see eachother everyday, ...

Would contacting him make me look like a fool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Hi Having some real problems moving on after a break up and really having trouble not contacting the guy. Its been a month since we spoke. This is the second time weve broken up because he wasnt willing to give up being single. I feel like I need t...

He liked me then....but does he now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - So there's this guy who I really really love a lot. He means everything to me and he's on my mind 24/7. I know he liked me too but I din't want to get into a relationship all the sudden.After that I went through puberty ..got a pimple factory ...

I'm afraid of being on my own and so desperate to find another man to fill the empty space.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I've divorced my husband of 22 years. I'm afraid of being on my own and so desperate to find another man to fill the empty space. I've met this man 18 years my senior while I was divorcing my husband. Dating him makes me feel much better that I ...

Do I just want someone who is going to pay for me when we go out? What's getting into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I need help. My situation is difficult for me. I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for 4 years and we have a son. 1 year out of those 4 years he was locked up. when he got out i didnt care for him. i really dont know accually because when i know ...

He denied having joined a dating site during our break, though I know he has, which makes me insecure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - hi. i read my bofys emails and found out that when we had an argument and split up for a few days, a couple of weeks ago, he joined an internet dating site. I dont think he has had any contact with any girls on the site since joining but it has ...

I keep feeling as though I'm going to lose my BF... any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - hi I joined this site because i keep feeling as though im going to loose my boyfriend, we've known each other for years now but have only just started dateing everyone that knows us has said 'finally youre together.' I love him and he knows thi...

I never wanted this, I just wanted a simple friend who cud listen to me wen I was not fine, all this turned out to be so ugly. please help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I did a teriible mistake. some months ago, wen we kept on fighting and ignoring. basically i dunno but i was the one pleading him to forget the fight and be ok....i guess his space giving thng is all because we have fighted so much during the past ...

I don't want to lose the best thing that has happened to me in a long time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I'm 24 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for only a few months but we've known each other for 9 years. I love him so much and he knows this and he says he loves me to but I just can't help think something is going to happen to mess it all u...

The older man with baggage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - This may take a bit to explain. Be patient. I met this guy Travis about a year ago when I started working at a grocery store. I hinted to wanting to go out with him a few times and finally he got my point and we went out for dinner and it en...

Make my boyfriend more like a gentleman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Hey I need to make my boyfriend more like a GENTLEMAN than a guy that makes me cary everything! My BF is a great guy. I love him dearly and he loves me .. we have one awesome relationship. What bothers me about him is, that sometimes when I h...

Is he interested or is he too busy for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I met this guy a few weeks ago and my brother in law told him I liked him and he said he was interested. So I had my brother in law give him my number and he told him he felt pressured to call now and he is so busy with work and class that he ...

I have a boy friend who loves me a lot but he never cares for me, he even forgot my birthday this year.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I have a boy friend who loves me a lot but he never cares for me, he even forgot my birthday this year. If I tell him about break up he tells he can't live without me and that he loves me truely and doesn't know to express it but I have completly ...

Should my boyfriend pay rent when the mortgage is in my name?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years will be moving in with me soon and I'm not sure if he should pay 'rent' because the mortgage in my name only. I don't like the idea of him paying 'rent' but it would be nice it he contributed some. Is that fair? I'm not ...

What should I do to forget about him and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5935 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I left his friend for him. Now his family pressurised him to breakup with me, we were perfect together. I love and miss him badly, he cries that he miss me too, but I don't want him to choose me over his family. I know we love each other but we ...

Is it normal for Europeon men to have a wandering eye?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Everytime I go out with my boyfriend (he is Europeon and I am american) he keeps oopgling other women and has an extreme wandering eye. I have never had this problem before with previous boyfriends. His previous girlfriends have all been Europeon. ...

Is it wrong to make your boyfriend or girlfriend choose between you and a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Is it wrong to make your boyfriend or girlfriend choose between you and a friend of theirs that they have had for a while?? I mean even if you think you have a good reason??...

I'm black, he's white. HE still to this day hides our relationship from his parents whom he still lives with. He says they are racist.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years I am 26 he is 25. I met him right after a previous serious relationship with a person I had a child with. My daugther was three months old when we met through work and we hit it off really well. ...

Help I need some original ideas 2 keep him interested!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Hey this isn't a massive problem Basically been with my boyfriend for a few months now, just wanting a few date ideas and romantic suprise ideas so he doesn't lose interest but to also show that I care about him and I appreciate him. I don't wan...

My boyfriend has told me to back off a bit but just how far do I go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has told me to back off a bit. I haven't text him much at all but when I do I'm wondering should I still tell him I love him? Or if I don't say it, will it make him miss me? Please Help x...

Why do guys always want to change who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Pretty much all the guys ive gone out with havent accepted me for me. I am very conservative and quiet by nature and am not into drunken parties. When I meet a guy I think i make it pretty clear what im like. I dont try to cover it up at all, i ...

He is so far away it hurts..I want to be with him what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - sooo im very in love with this guy but he lives too far aaway at this point.i dont know what to do anymore,my heart is hurting to be with him and only him and its been that wayy for a year now.he says he loves me ,and i think he does but i just dont ...

She is planning to spend some more time with me to decide whether she wants to come back to me or choose the other man, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - i posted about a month ago after my fiance of 6 years left. she contacted me after a week went by and said she wasn't sure she made the right decision. we started seeing eachother and talking sporadically. I got the feeling that she met som...

I want the unconditional love from a relationship, the one I never got from my father...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I have this desperate need/desire/urge to be loved by a male. I am always looking for the approval from amles, but never females. I always feel like I have to be in a relationship. I just want to feel loved, accepted, cared for by a male. I want ...

We love spending time together but her parents are restrictive...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for 3 months now,realy like her she's cool and all,we both love spending time together.but lately i been getting really frustrated cause her parents wont let us spend time together or mess up what ever plans we usually ...

She's very honest but I still have trust issues!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid: I need help plz i have a GF she's very beautiful.She loves me and i love her i plan to visit her one day.I feel as if i get less attention she always tells my friends that she loves me.But still i feel as if she doesn't cuz she ...

Will someone please help me get over my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Will someone pleasee help me get over my boyfriend..please i thought he was the one you no, i no im young but i got this feeling but he started smoking weed and it changed him he said to me " leave me alone, i dont want to talk to you ever again" ...

How do you win this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - You're waiting line outside an outdoor fast food joint. There's this group of annoying stoners standing in front of you. Saying stupid things like, "you just can't do half a scoop! [of ice cream]". But then there is this girl in the group who ...

Does he care for me more than he's willing to admit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6083 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - i think someone is interested is me . He gets jealoues when other men talk to me or disrespest me. I am in the midst of changing jobs and he offered to pay all my bills for me for a month and it really surpried me and it made me wonder if he cares ...

It's hard when you feel like there's something wrong with you.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I'm 23 and never had a proper boyfriend. I'm very shy, a little overweight and have low self-esteem. The men I've liked have been horrid to me, going out of their way to embarrass and make fun of me. You start to wonder what's wrong with you and ...

I seem to find myself attracted to married women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - Well here goes nothing. I really dont know what to do about my situation and i though i would give this a try. Im a 28 year old man. Who has never been in a real relationship or has even had a girlfriend. All my friends say im a very nice guy and ...

Why the tears and "empty feeling" when I was gone if he is not in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I have dated a man for 3 years. When we met we did not see it as a match but the sexual chemistry was great. Given that we made a deal that if either of us met someone else all we needed to do was to call and tell the other person that. I did abou...

Any flirting advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - A girl and I are very clearly into one another, but she is more flirtatious than I am. I want to send out stronger signals that suggest the feeling is mutual, so that something may happen between us. Does anyone have any tips as to what more I could ...

We are back together after he cheated me online, but he wont talk about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I just had a fight with my long distance bf. The fight was over the fact that he singed up at a dating site, looking for a girl, and althgout he did not made any communitation with any girl, I am mad with the idea that while I am counting the ...

I am a nice girl why can't guys be nice with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I'm 16 and would like to be in a relationship. I'm intelligent, athletic, caring, and friendly. I would take care of any guy even if I didn't like him, because it's the right thing to do. My looks aren't great (they are okay only if my skin is ...

We want so much to date eachother, but he also loves his girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - i have this friend "jon" and we have been hanging and texting a lot lately. he told me he likes me and I told him I liked him. but there is one huge problem: he has a girlfriend! jon says he would love to date me but he also loves his girl...

If you're in a relationship when the girl is 14 and a boy is 16, are you supposed to have "fun" ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - hey.. when you're in a relationship when the girl is 14 and boy is 16 are you supposed to have "fun". like is it part of the relationship? ...

Am I being to paranoid and immature?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - Hey.. ive been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I had to ask him out, and for the first few months he was dismissive to me. He was still a virgin before me, and i'm his first proper girlfriend. Our sex life is great, we only see each...

What Do you think of this friendship I have with this guy I met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I have a platonic realtionship with a guy for some time now, almost a year. We have become good friends, share jokes, pictures of ourselves ,send each others hugs. He's very polite with me and all. He's military and was stationed overseas, recent...

He finds pubic hair a turn off...he even shaves and waxes his whole body!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (?) - erm, my question is about pubic hair :s lol. well basicly me and my boyfriend have been together for a while but he has recenty told me that he finds hair a massive turn off. ive known for ajis that he doesnt like hair, facial hair etc! hes very ver...

We hardly know each other, but how can I get her to fall in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - Hi i realy like this girl, but we don't know each other much. How can i get to know her? How can i get her to fall in love with me??? Help Thank you x...

I'm in too deep with a married man, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I am seeing a married man even though I do not want to. I am sorry it is a bit long. He is so kind, does my laundry, buys the groceries, helps a single women with all the things a husband really should do, I gave up trying to tell him not to bothe...

I'm fed up with being the only one making the effort in this relationship!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a while now..and since we started dating he never calls or texts me and it seems like i always have to take the 1st step in communication. I've mentioned to him and he sed he will try and change but nothing has..he sed ...