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Archived questions from: 13 April, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I get the friendly but shy store clerk to ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - How can I get the friendly but shy store clerk to ask me out? I went there yesterday with the intention of flirting with him, but his boss was right there and we didn't have much time to talk. I don't know him very well, but he's a friend of a frie...

How can I get us back in a relationship again? He says he doesn't want to get hurt, so we are not "officially" together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Me and this guy have been seeing each other over the past year. We break up, then get back together.. and so on. We both love each other, and I dont know if its just me but I realy have the feeling we were made for each other. Yeah sounds stupid, ...

Pain in my testicles after I see my girlfriend, is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - hey, i was just wondering, after I see my girlfriend, even if we do nothing sexual, my balls nearly always ache after. It is really inconvienient, and I was wondering is this normal? I'm worried. Thanks...

I want him to tell his ex about us., whereas he says he doesn't want to hurt her. Should I be suspicious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 4 months. He was with someone when we met but finished their relationship to be with me. His ex now has been texting him daily, and he has been replying. After a secret quick inspection of his phone I found out ...

Peacefully Resolve Conflicts with Your Wife

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13 April 2008 (F) - Origional Link: http://www.howtowin.in/free-books/how-to-win-heart-of-your-wife/chapter-06-resolve-conflict-with-your-wife.html Here is a real story that I will narrate to you, as it will teach a big lesson and is especially useful for marri...

Was our sex good enough? Am I pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Me and My boyfriend of 8 months decided to have sex for the first time last week. It was both of our first times and i enjoyed it but i feel that i have let him down as he is 2 years older than me. I feel that i have ruined it for him but he says ...

He never trusts me! Now I've broken up with him but I love him and need him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - my bf has a problem with trusting people. and because of my past he doesnt trust me, and he has never trusted me for the 5 years we have been together. last week i just got really mad and broke up with him for not trusting me. he is also going ...

Wish I could talk to women but I am too self-conscious, any advice?

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13 April 2008 (M) - im a 21 year old male and still a virgin and i have scaring from my acne and real selfconcious about it and i wanna talk to women but am too scared is there any way to avoid this the only good thing about me is that im pretty built ...

Guys call me fat - this makes other guys unwilling to make a move.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Guys have mixed opinions on me... I am not fat(as far as i'm concerned!) i'm size 14,but some guys often call me fat. Most of them don't,i'm CURVY.LITTERALY ..But the few guys that call me fat make it hard for the guys who tell me they like me to ...

How Can I get my mum to accept my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i am recently reconciled with my ex bf. We split up 3 years ago after moving in together waay too soon, and rowing over my then ex and also having big sexual issues and no money. We were together 3 years. After we split, we fell out big tim...

Does his friends shouting show that he's been talking about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I asked him out about 9 months ago...... I know for a fact that he liked me otherwise I wouldn't have. He said maybe and 2 days later said not now maybe after the exams thanx for asking. After the summer he was watching me all the time and we spoke ...

Should I tell her how I feel for her... before she leaves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Right... I have a problem...i am not sure about it... Okay this Student Teacher from my school... She is new and she came about 2 months ago.. i'm having a crush on her ....and daydream about her mostly in school and i do stalk her mostly at l...

If he accepts to go together to the cinema, does he implicitly accept to be my BF???...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I was wondering...If you ask a guy out to the movies and he's 13,will he then(once he's said yes) accept you as a gf. Because i could pluck up the courage to try it,but he might not think of me as his gf and simply GET ANOTHER GF. Are guys rea...

My soon-to-be husband sometimes flirts with women online or on the phone, once even asked out a married woman. Am I denial, minimising the magnitude of his habit?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Me and my bf are in a serious relationship and have plans to get married by hopefully next year. There's one issue that has been bothering me though.. he sometimes flirts with women online or on the phone. He has done this a few times in the past ...

He has a GF but says he only goes out with her because he feels sorry for her!! Should I be getting involved with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 April 2008 (?) - well theres this guy who i had a crush on months ago. i liked him loads! and i was mad on him but now i dont seem as interested in him as i used to be and have got over him. but i was in ICT the other day and the power went so we were all just sat ...

Should I stay with him in these conditions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - ok. my boyfriend and i have been dating on and off for four years. we use to agure alot. then when i moved to indianapaolis he started telling me to never talk to him again. he hated me. then when he found out that i might have been pregnan...

It used to be guys crushing on me, now I am struck dumb with first ever crush of my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - well i am a really confused teen...ever since high school i have been dtaing like the hottest guys ever,everyone used to try and make up converations with me,want to hang out with me..if i ever liked a guy i used to get him in know time..this is the ...

First date advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - i relly like this girl and want to ask her out on a date. But i'm scared thing's will get arkward at parts, as we've never been totally close, just distant friends. What kind of conversations do you have? And what's off limits for a first date? how ...

How can I get him to realise that I want a mature relatioship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I'm in love with him sooooooo much. And now that things have settled down since he dumped me i know if i asked him out he would say yes. But there are 2 issues... 1.If people ever found out,because we have been out before and of the rumours we w...

I still have a sex drive but not with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I am 25 and live with a guy I have been with for about a year. I never really wanted him to move in but his parents moved away last November and he had nowhere to go so it all seemed convenient at the time. We had been friends for about 6 years ...

Why does he talk about girls chatting him up when he knows it annoys me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - well recently started seeing this guy ( am 16 he 21) and we really into one another but taken things slow as not to rush into anything. Only thing that worrying me is he drinks quite bit and goes to the pub alot, i trust him and wouldn't think he ...

I think she should take time to sort this out but can't bear the thought of losing her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - I have this amazing girlfriend, I am very much in love with her and she has told me she is too. she has this friend (a guy) who she has known from nursery, they have always been good mates but only recently has she found out that he is in love with ...

I gave in to his request (oral sex) but he did not return the favour. Am I right to be upset?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I recently gave my 1st blowjob to a guy I was dating. He wanted it so much and so I gave in. Although personally I felt the act demeaning, I didn't mind doing it as I was attracted to this guy so much. However when I asked him if he would return ...

Involved in a relation with a teenager; when I realised it was wrong, he blackmailed to carry on with our relation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - After my marriage failed i was in a bad place emotionally and ended up allowing an affair to start with someone 15yrs younger than me and only 15 himself. When ppl started finding out about it realisation hit me and it felt wrong and i knew i had ...

Dating guys but attracted to girls. Am I bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I'm 20 going 21 this december. I've been dating Guys all this while.. but I find myself always attracted to girls. i tends to be shy when am with guys, but i'll become touchy with the girls. am i a bisexual, lesbian or something? ...

He told me to wait a MONTH after I asked him out! In the meantime, he's dating someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - hey guys.... i am absuluty head over heals in love with this guy.... i asked him out...and he said to wait a month. So i waited.... and then he starts dating this other chick... who i really hate!!!! What should i do????? He looks at me in class and ...

I have finally found it in me to trust someone again...but he acts "shady"!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - ok i havnt been with anyone in a really long time(a year to be exact) and not just sexually i havnt been in a relationship period! because i got tired of being hurt and treated badly by guys. well about 3 mo's ago this really nice guy finally got me ...

I feel like breaking up but could this be "the one"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I have been dating this special man for 7 months, we are very attracted to each other. We have a wonderful time when we are together(it's passionate, loving and deep) Everything feels so right. He says her loves me when we make love. I have strong ...

My boyfriend gives me "advice" and it seems controlling, so how do I set a boundary with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating a man for nearly a year now and our sex life is great. I feel love for him and he for me, but this is now feeling strained for me. He constantly feels the need to tell me what to do, how to do it when to do it, how I'm ...

I'm 25, so why am I still single?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Why am I still single? I'm a 25 year-old intelligent woman with a college education and a good job. I would say I'm above average in appearance, though slightly overweight, but I have lost weight recently and I'm getting many positive comments about ...

My father will forbid me from seeing my boyfriend, should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend...we've been together for 1 month, last week i asked my father whether i could have boyfriend or not, he told me that it was my decision. I'm 15 and my b/f is 17. The problem is that now my dad told me that he had been said tha...

She's defending the guy that sexually assaulted her whilst she was drunk?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - Hey guys, Well i have a wonderful girlfriend that is most definately the best thing that has ever happened to me! This much i promise.....but i have a problem...... I have come on this site and asked a couple times about what to do when dealing wit...

I'm in love with him, but I have future plans that he can't be involved with.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I'm dating a 25 year old man and i'm 17. I am in love with him, but secretly i don't want to be with him forever, because i have future plans that he can't be in. He has a beautiful daughter who I love and see as my own, and i truly don't want to h...

My boyfriend's mum saw me going in to the cinema with a male friend, (it was innocent) and has since made my life hell.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I am 16 and have moved out of my home due to a few problems with my mum a few months ago. I have been currently living with my boyfriend and his mum. I have stared college and made a new friend. However i met her boyfriend at a party and we kissed ...

Is it alright to tell a girl that she is beautiful on your first date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - Is it alright to tell a girl that she is beautiful on your first date? I'm going on a date with this amazing girl who makes me laugh, i make her laugh and she's easy to talk to, and of course she's beautiful. Do you think if i tell her she's bea...

Co-worker confusion!! How do I interpret his actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - how to tell if your male coworker likes you? okay, so i got promoted and transferred to a new store recently. I've been there for about a week, and I happen to work with a few people who trained at my old store. Theres this guy who's a little a...