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Archived questions from: 7 April, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I improve HIS half of the sex life when all he does is please ME? And what's with the diet pills!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

7 April 2008 (?) - Okay... first off, I would like to just say that I have never, EVER dated a man who put more time and effort into pleasing me as this one. We'll call him 'Jed'... Yea, I know. Anyway, Jed fingers, performs oral, rubs, caresses, kisses, licks... ...

I don't trust him as much as I used to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I'm still with my boyfriend. Just a little problem, I don't trust him as much as I used to. I'm going away to see my sister for 3 days and I'm really going tuu miss him. I'm used to seeing him every day but since I've told him I'm going away for ...

Why does it take days for a guy to call or text message you back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

7 April 2008 (?) - Why does it take days for a guy to call or text message you back? Does this often signify that he has a girlfriend? Or just super busy...or uninterested. ...

We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...

My ex cheated but he really, really loves me! I'm so confused....can it work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - My ex cheated on me in september, and the girl he was with told me in december. he denied it.. i finaly got it out of him when i had solid evidence. i stayed with him, but broke up with him in january until march.... we were not really broken up, we ...

How long should I hold out for the love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - things with my ex weren't good, even though we both really loved each other. after breaking up in october and taking several months apart (no contact except for a few weeks in december) he called and wanted to see if i'd be interested in trying ...

I don't like public affection, but my boyfriend does. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I've never been one to like doing anything in public. Things that might make me look out of place. (Which is odd, because I am such a metalhead, wearing black band shirts, chains, spikes etc. [and just because I said that doesn't mean you get to ...

Caught between two cultures - other than break up with my intolerant BF, is there anything I can do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm not quite sure what to do. My boyfriend (for want of a better word at this point) constantly bashes Muslims to the point where it's ridiculous. He justifies his hatred by saying that all monotheism is "bull" because he chooses to follo...

Should I continue a relationship with a man I have no future with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Im in a 2 1/2 year relationship with a guy i love to bits we have a three month child together. During the pregnancy the relationship was pretty dire but he has really changed and become a great dad. During the pregnancy he told me that he would ...

I work with a guy I really like, but now we can't even look at each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Okay where to start, i met this lad around college and we also work together, was great we got chatting on myspace then he gave me msn was all going well, there was a college party there and it was also my birthday, i had a rather huge amount to ...

I miss her so much and want her back, Can you give me some guidance please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - My ex girlfriend broke up with me because she said she didn't love me. She said she wanted to be in love with me more than anything but can't. So it ended, i was devastated. Strangely so was she. I decided to date again and went on a date. She had ...

Do girls care about the size of a penis?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - I'm just at the average size for the male penis. I was wondering, do girls care about size..i mean, they have to a little right? I'm 17 and only 5.5-6 I'm thinking that's small for my age.. is it? ...

We broke up, but we can't seem to let go of eachother, what should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me three weeks ago but we still talk on the phone almost everyday. Recently, we've admited to eachother that we still have strong feelings for eachother and that we miss eachother a lot. We have...

His children are controlling his life, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - How do you get a man to stop allowing his grown kids to control his choice of potential mates? They just don't want him to date anyone and i think that this is unfair. Inheritence is one of the reasons probably and i do not think that that is the ...

How do you get a guy to tell you that he loves you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - How do you get a guy to tell you that he loves you? During intercourse I have had a strong urge to tell him, but should I wait to hear it from him first?...

How do I make a guy love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - How do I make a guy love me?...

I'm depressed and need to lose weight fast, Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hey Well...urmmm i'm being bullied about my weight and i eat healthy and excercise regulary but I'm still fat!!!:( I get really depressed about it and have self harmed over it:( Umm and all my friends are like the perfect size and I really want a ...

When to admit to a guy that you love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - how do you know when to admit to a guy that you love him?...

I'm fed up being left wondering where we stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hey Guys, please help I really like this guy I have been dating! He wants to move slow.(Even though we have made love and it is unbelievable!) he doesn't talk much about what he likes, just that I will find out in time. He want to get to know m...

He wants me to stay and let him prove that he will never hurt me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost six years. He has been a really great partner and friend. However, he has cheated on me with around 7 women. All of whom he said he just had one time sex with. He has never told me or given me reason to ...

I am in love with my boss, but I have to leave.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been sleeping with my boss for the past 12 months. He is divorced and I am almost divorced. I just can't seem to work in the same company with him. We get along great out of work, but at work things are very strained. I want to quit my ...

I cant stand the thought of them being together.so please help me find a way for her to leave this guy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - uhm..well theres this girl in my life!!she means the world to me!i love her.she loves me from what it seems!!one little problem...she has a boyfriend..but we have talks about being together..we cant live without each other...i saw her this weekend ...

He's currently in an on/off casual relationship with a girl but should I go ahead and tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - i know im young but i think im falling in love with my boy mate. i seem to think of him all the time, i miss him when im not around him n i just want to be with him all the time. i feel strange though because i didnt think i could fall for someone ...

We both liked each other, now he's sleeping with someone else. What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - A lad ive liked for a while now, n who said he liked me, has started having "casual sex" with a woman in her middle/late 20's. we werent in a relationship but we were almost there and now i feel like he strung me along a bit? now hes saying that we ...

How can I trust him again? What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hey guys, Ive got myself into s suituation and now i cant see any light at the end of the tunnel. Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 year and now im living with him. in the beginning of our relation i was happy until i read a message...

Thinking of going to a club tonight - alone. Should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - Hi, quik question. A club in town that I like to go to apparently does well (gets lots of people to come) on monday nights. I'm considering going, but none of my friends can make it. I guess I would be going out in the hope of finding a girl a...

I cheated on him 3 times in 2 yrs. I broke his heart, but I want him back, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I love him so much I cheated on my 2 year boyfriend 3 times. He loved me so much and i broke his heart and he eventually finished with me. I was scared of falling in love then loosing him as i had been there before with someone else and it hurt,...

I want to ask her out, she thinks I'm 'army fit', but I get the feeling she'll say no.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - Hi everyone I need help - so here's the story: I'm 14 and am madly in love with a girl that i'm friends with, i have already told her that i love her but i have not asked her out, all my friends have told me to ask her and that she would proba...

I want to be able to touch or kiss him somewhere other than his penis to excite him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hello, i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and everything is fantastic. When it comes to the bedroom department though i can't do anything to really turn him on other than his penis. Whereas when he touches me somewhere or kisses me some...

Should I go to Australia and be with the man I love, or make a go of my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I'm really desperate for advice - sorry this is a long story. A couple of years ago I separated from my husband (of 12 years marriage - total 18 year relationship). Our relationship had deteriorated to such an extent that we had not had sex for ...

How do I tell my best friend that I like her when she just started dating a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - I have a very close friend who for a long time had relationship problems, mainly she hasn't had a real relationship. She was into a guy for a very, very long time who showed no interest in her until recently he asked her out. She said yes even ...

Why is he so distant with me? Is it because he's never had a girlfriend before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I met this guy a week ago through friends since I just got out a bad relationship. He's 20, I'm 23. He's never been in a relationship, no girlfriend at all. We have seen each other about 4 times in 7 days and 2 times he made plans, and he didn't ...

I want the baby and the boyfriend, but he has commitment issues!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having problems for sometime. I always feel like he's hiding me and maybe seeing other people. I always feel like he's lying to me about something. He definatley doesn't treat me right. He's told me he has fear of ...

My girlfriend has a huge problem with me being friends with my ex! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - I had a 8 year relationship in which I was engaged and very close to a woman. That ended three years ago. Recently, I began dating another woman and it has become serious. I felt to resolve the feelings from my past that I would need to make friends ...

Should I bust out the question and ask her out or take it slow and see if we vibe better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - Theres a girl who I am totally attracted to. We just met a few days ago but we seem to have so many things in common: our hobbies, books, movies, lifestyles etc. Last night after we saw a concert I asked her if we could kiss...we did for awhile i...

Anything wrong with a 19 year old male dating 26 year old woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - Hello! I was wondering, is there anything technically wrong with a 19 year old male dating a 26 year old female.. with two twin kids? Maybe it's just a crush, but I believe I'm pretty into her. Obviously older men date younger girls, b...

I can't figure this man out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I've been dating a man who has been separated for three years, but has not divorced his wife. He has very low self esteem and drinks daily. He constantly feels the need to frequent bars and seek attention from females but does not sleep with them. ...

Why won't he admit he is dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I have a professional relationship with a man I feel is interested in me. Recently I became aware of the fact that he is dating someone much younger than him. Because of the comfort in our relationship, I have blantantly asked him if he is dating, ...

Can you help with my personal sex problems please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I am 14. I'm straight, and i am a virgin. I like a 15 year old who is not a virgin. I like him a lot, but we haven't met in person yet. Well we have but a year ago. Now we just talk on the phone. I don't have any boobs, and i don't know if he will ...

I want him to come back, yet my heart tells me to leave him alone.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - This guy told me to leave him alone because he was talking to someone else...now he's calling me back..i've been nice and i've been talking to him but my heart is telling me that i'm being used, and that he will do it all over again, so i told him ...

He says he loves me but he jokes about my weight. What can I do about it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hi I have a problem, I've been with my boyfriend for about two months and because of my weight I was too shy to take it to the next level. But we had sex the other day he is very slim and he commented on my weight and hurt my feelings. We were havi...

I'm a virgin, so how comes being fingered doesn't hurt me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I've bin fingered once before and he used four fingers up to his knuckles bearing in mind his fingers are quite fat. It didn't hurt one bit and I didn't think it was particularly 'good' either. I'm a virgin and I don't see why it doesn't hurt me,...

Was I too accommodating to his needs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - OK, I've been dating a guy since January. All we do is have sex. We've been out just a couple of times in 3 months. At first, he was head over heels for me. Anything I wanted, he was there. Now, all he wants to do is come over, have sex, slee...

Does a break count as part of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hello! I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Although, he wanted 'space' that; he felt not to be ready in a relationship and that he wanted his freedom back. We haven't been seeing new people but ourselves to be honest as we were closte...

Am I wasting my time with this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Been seeing this guy for 6 weeks. He's still distant at times. Is intimate, but when we are together, he doesn't give into small talk. He states he has to get to know someone before opening up. Is this normal or am i wasting my time?...

I have known him since high school...11 yrs now, should I tell him how I really feel or lose him to another??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I need help... My best friend is a guy I have known since high school...11 years. We do everything together. I go to his family functions and he goes to mine. Years ago he told me that he never wanted to ruin our one of a kind friendship by trying ...

Is it unrealistic to even consider that we may/could make our marriage work NOW??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - I married in April of last year for the second time. My first marriage occurred when i was very young, wayyyy too young. It lasted less than a year and i view it as a mistake made due to my age and immaturity. This time, however, i really felt like...