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Archived questions from: 6 April, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I being 'over-jealous'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I think I am being very jealous. My boyfriend does sides jobs every now and then. This time it is at a store two women own. I only know what he tells me. And he told me they were ordering lunch today and he ordered something as well and th...

Does this guy want to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - Last Saturday we hung out for like 7 1/2 hours (watched movies, ate pizza, talked, etc), last night for 6 hours (watched a movie, talked, did stuff on the Internet). Then the day before yesterday when I said something to him and really overreacted ...

How comes is it that the girls I seem to attract are incredibly unfaithful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

6 April 2008 (M) - Just wondering here, is it unrealistic to look for a faithful girlfriend at my age (I'm just about 18), I ask because every girl I've dated over the last couple years has cheated one me, and almost all my friends end up having this very same ...

Why do men manipulate you into thinking that YOU are wrong - when they are the cheats?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - A few days ago, I decided to contact 'the other woman' to find out what type of relationship there was between her and my boyfriend. I suspected that my s/o was having a relationship outside of ours, and after finding evidence of cheating ...

I either need to get over him, or fix things. Please help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - Okay, so I just started high school this year, and i met this guy who is a sophomore. I liked him immediately, and I had never even had a conversation with him. I got his number and started texting him, and we found out a lot that we have in common. ...

How can I break up with him without feeling so bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I have a boyrfriend, but am practically in love with this other guy who i used to date, and still talk to. I don't think it's fair to be with someone who i don't truely like in that way. I know i need to end it with my boyfrend, but i know he's rea...

I'm terrified of going back into something with a guy who just doesn't love me enough.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - How often does a guy call if he's really interested in getting back together? My ex told me he wants to try again - that he thinks he's matured and things could be different. I told him I needed to take things slow and have some time to think about ...

Is it worth maintaining this friendship to see how it rides?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I've been keeping in touch with a military guy whose stationed in Kansas. I met him on a deployment a year ago. When we met, he flirted with me, but only met on 2 occations for a business deal then he left. I decided to write to him 2 months a...

I worry that I'm going to miss out on my youth - seeing as I am only 18.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I have just broken up with my Boyfriend of 4 years, and I'm unsure of what is right anymore?...The reason I wanted to finish it was because I was confused about our relationship, and worried that I was going to miss out on my youth seeing as I am ...

Suddenly feeling really insecure about his feelings. I ned to know he loves me and I don't know what to do now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - i broke up with my ex boyfriend in October because i felt like i stopped loving him. i started a new relationship in january. although i still had alot of insecurities about my previous boyfriend. through the new relationship i was constantly m...

Do I try to win him back...or...just let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - ok where to start? me and my bf broke up around 5 months ago because i had lost interest in him. he begged me to get back with him for ages but i refused. then new years eve we ended up having a massive arguement (which i dont remember because of ...

He really turns me on! Will he respect me if I have sex with him? I really want to do things right!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - hi. i need help. i recently started dating again after a year of being single. i was in an abusive relationship.i mean it started physicaly,then mentally then went to emotional abuse. my spirit was not broken though. i Thank God that i still ...

He promised he would come back to me after things ended badly....am I headed for a fall?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - Hi, my ex and i are recently reconciled after 3 years apart. It's just friends at the moment, but i suspect he wants to try again, as i think i might do too, but i know that if i make the decision, i have to stick by it. But i don't know if what i ...

30 yr age difference?!! What do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I fell in love with an older man. Considerably older- about 30 years older than me. Legalities are not an issue, but I'm having problems with the age difference. I've been in love with him for years, but I'm just now coming to the point that I can ...

Guys don't take me seriously in that way hence why I'm single and I don't know why?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I've never had a proper boyfriend / never been in love before. It's driving me nuts that the only guys I meet ANYWHERE only see me as a passing fancy / or after one thing and then just leave me hanging. Some guys I've really liked end up having g...

He slept with another girl now I don't know where I stand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - me and this lad have been planning to get together for a few months now. we talked about it face to face and text about it a lot. but three days ago he slept with another girl (who already has a boyfriend!) and this made me see him in a different ...

If we spend too much time together he grates on my nerves!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 3 months. I am really falling for him, but I find if we spend too much time together, he really grates on my nerves. Do you think this is normal, or is it a sign that it's not going to work out long term? Sorry i...

He was "smitten" with me but now avoids me! Do I remind him of his psycho ex?!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - -He's friends with my friends and is a well known figure on campus, but we had never met until one night in dining hall. -We talked for a long time and after he left my friends told me how impressed they were with the chemistry ap...

Will he ignore me if he knows the truth? I'm a good girl with a rebellious nature!

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I don't know where I stand and it's driving me nuts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

6 April 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, Basically, I met this girl (she's a friend of an aquaintance), we really clicked, got on really well, and eventually ended up kissing... we said goodnight etc, and were texting each other when we got in and she ended up saying that "...

How should he tell his mum he has a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (M) - 17 year old guy meets 17 year old girl etc. they take it slow at the start and then after seeing each other for a month, make it formal and go into a relationship. this is the first relationship the guy has been in, how does he tell his mum he has a ...

Will we leave tell-tale signs in the hotel sheets?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (M) - me and my girlfriend are ready to start having sex but we don't have any privacy . we've decided to go to a hotel next w/end so we can start to know our bodies and learn what to do. I'll wear a condom but we're wondering if there'll be any mess...

Met him on a marriage site, now he wants to marry me but I've never met him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - hello I am a woman 29 years of age. I met this man on a marriage site we live in 2 different countries we chatted, sent pictures, talk on the phone, I talked to his family. And we found that we have many things in common the problem is that ...

I can't seem to orgasm, it is sooo intense, as if my body can't handle it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - Why can't I orgasm? I don't know why but whether it be when I am masturbating or even when having sex or my boyfriend is touching my clitorus, as soon as I get very close to orgasm I have to stop, or I have to stop my boyfriend carying on. I don't ...

He was drunk and said he never wants to speak to me again... sober, he said he can't remember.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - Last night me, my boyfriend and quite a few friends were out in town. All of us extremely drunk. At the end of the night my boyfriend told me to leave him alone and he never wants to speak to me or see me ever again, I don't know why because I ...

My fiancee who is in college 300 miles away has a "boyfriend"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

6 April 2008 (M) - My fiancee who is in college 300 miles away has a "boyfriend" Everyone knows me, about our engagement (ring and all) and about her "boyfriend". Even though she has told me they have no sex, she does spend nights with him in his bed (kissing bare ...

In Love with my ex, we are both married now, both have kids, we are talking again, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I need some help. My ex-boyfriend and I dated for a year and a half and I broke up with him 12 years ago and A LOT was left unresolved and we were both devastated, he was A MESS. I never, ever meant to hurt him but I was 20 years old and confused. I ...

I don't know if I'm pregnant or not...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - Hi. I don't know if I am pregnant or not, but I came off my peroid on Friday, but I had sex for the first time that night I looked in my knickers there were some brown stuff, but normally I have that anyway, I dont know if I am pregnant or not, ...

I want to do more things with him but when I say to him he says I'm trying to control his life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - Hiya everyone, I really need some help. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, he's 19 and I'm 17. We have split up twice since we've been together both of those times were through his decision. The first time-because I went into ...

I am not a virgin so why is my partner unable to penetrate me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I am in a really loving relationship but my partner is unable to penetrate me. I am not a virgin and we are both ready each time we try and I don't know what is wrong. What should I try?...

How can I tell he loves me and not playing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I dont know how to tell if my new boyfriend really loves me. He has a past of being a complete playboy and hes had alot of experiance, but i havent i had one serious boyfriend who broke my heart after taking my virginity on our 10 month anniversary ...

Is there such a thing as someone out of your league?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I have a crush on a professor of mine. But putting the ethics aside of whether it's appropriate dating a professor, is there such a thing of someone simply out of your league? Because that's how I feel. Of course, I don't think that he'll like me, ...

Should I tell my friend about my real feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I'm 14 (turning 15 in august) and I really like this guys who's a year older than me. It isn't just a crush, I am severely in love and I care more about his feelings than i do my own, But he doesn't like me, he likes my best friend, who's going out ...

She can't say the "L" word!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (M) - I am with a woman who can't say the L-word. We have been together a year and a half and I feel like the woman. I say "I love you" and I get silence...she cant say it and tells me anytime she ever said it in her life everything went wrong---but i ...

Why didn't I have an orgasm with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I have recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend, I thought it would hurt and I may bleed as it does if the hymen is broken. But it didn't hurt at all and it easily went in, but it didn't feel like hardly anything was in there, I didn't even ...

Who is Really at Fault??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - After four years in my relationship with my boyfriend I just found out that about a year and a half ago he cheated on me. He said he worked with this girl and she flirted with him. He told her he had a girlfriend and for a little while she left him ...

Do I give up my boyfriend for this lad I met on holdiay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - Hey, Well this is a very long one, so please take your time to read it properly, it would mean a lot to me. I have recently been on holiday to Skegness and I live 3 hours away from there by car, and I met someone over there and he is wonderful, I'm ...

He's not the duplicitous type....so why did he cheat? Just a mistake or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - Is it true that "once a cheater, always a cheater"? Or are there people for whom it really is just a terrible mistake that they learn from and won't repeat? I cheated on my college bf at the end. Didn't sleep with the other guy, but I got emotio...

Why did this boy wait until I liked someone else? He's confusing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

6 April 2008 (?) - right well ive got a bit of a problem. ive liked this guy 'j' for months and months, maybe over a year? the minute i set eyes on him i fancied the ats off of him, although i never in a million years thought he would go for someone like me, but hey,...

I encouraged him to be open about his porn use.....so, why does he lie?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - When me and my bf first met the issue of porn had come up jokingly and we both confessed that we had watched it and he told me that he had absolutly no desire to watch it at all anymore because he was over the teen phase. this had shocked me ...

Should I know how I feel after 5mths of dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

6 April 2008 (M) - Is 5 months enough time to know how you feel for someone you're dating?...

Am I wrong to just "hang out" with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - ugh i seriously need help. kay so i have a boyfriend, it's good and all but there's a problem... my ex. I think i'm always going to have feelings for him... but i don't want to. Like everything is so nice now with my boyfriend. but i can't get my ex ...

How does a man court a woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - What is a boy (or man) doing when he court a girl(or woman)?...