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Archived questions from: 21 April, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Could love grow from this feeling of comfortableness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I have been dating this man for about 2 months. He is funny, I enjoy spending time with him, and he is easy to talk to. I look forward to seeing him, talking to him, and spending time with him. He makes me laugh. We see each other about every ...

Any ideas on how I could approach my dad about my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I've known this guy for like over a year now, as one of my ex's introduced me to him. After my ex broke up with me, me and this guy stopped talking for a very long time. In December this guy started talking to me again and we got on very well. ...

How can I change her mind about going on the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (M) - Hi all! me and my gf have been together for and 3 months now. We are very much in love and the sex is amazing. there is however, just one problem, my gf always forces me to wear a condom. She says that she can't risk getting pregnant and says tha...

I can't stand it that he never shops!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I am new in this website, so forgive me if I make mistakes. I am 23 years old and i am in a serious relationship for almost a year. i live with him since 6-7 months. Everything is great , he is always gentle, nice, loving, ...

I want to leave him as he was staring at this girl for hours!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I am a woman that as long as i rememebr had 2 divorced parents, which made me choose all the wrong guys in my life, which now am trying to correct. The sad thing is, it has been more than a year and a half when i decided to break up with someone ...

Can I have others opinions please as to whether I could be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Please can somebody give me advice, I had sex the other day with my sexual partner, it was missionary, and he did come inside me but pulled out very soon after, I cleaned myself up and sat up straight away. The thing is this happened right in the ...

During an argument he said he doesn't have this problem (soft erections) with other girls, could he be cheating??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I confused. my bf and I have been together for 7 years and for the last year or so hes been gettin soft during oral and vaginal sex.now its not every time but happens now and again and I don't complain or say anything. a day ago we got into an ...

My partner speaks his mind, but it comes across as rudeness! How can I make him see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 27y/o woman and my partner is 34. My partner is a lovely guy except for one thing- he speaks his mind, and I find it sooo embarrassing, but he sees nothing wrong with it. My partner believes in being honest with people and in many ways tha...

Is he having harmless fun with me or trying to manipulate me into sex, by acting slow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - My lad mate is 18 and he keeps flirting with me (on msn, face to face and on text)...i really like him as a mate and is THAT WAY too so i flirt back. as well as being flirty he is sort of playful - he gently pushes me, tickles me, hugs me etc....im ...

We're back together but did her previous relation change her? Why the lack of sexual desire? Does she genuinly want to take slow steps?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6061 days ago

21 April 2008 (M) - Ok, so My girlfriend and I dated for 2 years, we broke up for about a year and just started talking again...its been about 3 months. We have been doing the typical dating stuff, going out, to dinners, shopping etc. She dumped me to go out with some ...

People say we are strange. Should I stay where I am in the blissful present?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been going out for over 5 years now. We got together when we were both 18 and just started college. Things were great back then.. well maybe could be better but i couldnt be happier. We went out to the movies a lot and ...

Is this long distance relationship worth all the effort? I'm new to this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i've just started redating my ex boyfriend again. Things are going okay and I'm happy enough- except for the fact he lives 130 miles away. We've been dating for two months and already the distance is tiring me out. we see each other every ...

Moving to another country for love? He's not exactly against getting married eventually.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - moving for love? i'm with my bf for almost a year now. He's been wonderful, caring and loving. I'm 26, he's 31. he's moving to another country and has 'invited' me to move with him. Actually he said it's up to me but when I said I am consider...

Will this relationship end in disaster over her good-looking ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (M) - I can't stop comparing myself to my girl friend's ex. My girl friend went out with a guy from when she was 16 to 18 and I started going out with her from 19 to now and she is 22. My problem is that her ex is extremely good looking and I can...

I have been wanting to have sex with a girl after being totally influenced by the lesbian porn and the 'L' word show!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Well i am 19 years old and now i have realised that i am bi. It's not by some incident, but for the recent weeks i have been wanting to have sex with a girl after being totally influenced by the lesbian porn and the l word show llol..i have had ...

Is he genuine or just looking for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I was out with friends one night and my eyes met with this guy, one of those strange moments when u know there's something there. Anyway we danced and kissed. In all my life this kiss was amazing, so much so that i think about it at least every ...

Why can't I get the truth out of him, of why we broke up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - How are you supposed to move on from a relationship that has ended when you don't even know WHY it ended??? My b/f broke up with me 1 month ago and I still have so many questions about why he ended it. I don't believe the broad/general reason he t...

It was hard for me to get over her, so what is the deal here? What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (M) - I was with my ex-girlfriend for over two years before she broke up with me. She was instantly dating/messing around with a guy 10 years younger than her. After two months of no contact, she called me for a ride home late one night, and we have been...

I'm 40 he's 22, I regret saying what I did, now I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I am currently seeing my toy boy of 5 years, i am 40 and he is 22, and I love him with all my heart but recently we have been falling out, well i have. I am insecure and convinced that he will be running of with the first young woman who show...

I would like it to be more than an online friendship.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i've been speaking to this guy online for alomst 2 years, and earlier this year he told me he liked me, i like him too but i said it would be too complicated because of the distance and our personal circumstances. I'm 20 years old and he is 24, ...

I met a new guy who has what my boyfriend couldn't offer in terms of personality, but he's struggling financially. I stand at crossroad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I'm 27 this year. Dating with a man that i met one and a half years ago. When we first started dating, all i could think of was spending my life with him. I loved him dearly although he's a male chauvinist pig at times. Throughout the first 10 ...

The more we are together, the more I doubt we will ever be close, emotionally. Please assist.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Dear All I am in a relationship that is turning a year, but I feel like we have not at all grown closely. I always feel like our relationship has not developed emotionally but time really flies. I oo not get the emotional boost I hope for. I need...

I've fallen for my boyfriend's friend, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (M) - I went out with my b/f's friends last week, and i think i've fallen in love with one of them!! I dont know how his friend feels but he was flirting with me most of the night. I've been with my b/f for about 5 months and things are not the best at t...

I can't climax during oral or hand stimulation but I can climax during self-masturbation. Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 April 2008 (M) - Hey, i'm 16 and i haven't really had that much sex before, but when my G/F gives me a blowjob or handjob i find it really hard to cum? I've read the other posts, and i'm pretty sure it's not physological or physical cause it's fine when i have ...

My boyfriend cheated with his ex at the beginning of our relation and continued to maintain contact with her. Could we move on? Can he forget her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for half a year. He was with his ex for 3-4 years up to the point we met and starting going out. Their breakup was mutual. With me, he made the first move to initiate a serious relationship. A week into it...he cheated on ...

Our relationship is very friendly and sexual but he is also sleeping with other women. If I tell him I fell for him, will he give up this life of freedom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I have had a crush on a guy since I was 16. At 25, I told him that I had a thing for him. He did not seem to interested at the time, but I guess I was ignoring the signals, especially when he asked for my number. We spoke a few times, but I was ...

He lies to his family about seeing me again after the break up. What does all this mean? Am I just being too sensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I went out with my boyfriend for 2 years, and then we broke up for 9 months, and have started seeing each other again for the past 4 months. I am very frustrated at the fact that he hides our relationship from his family. For example, he woul...

What do you do when you feel unwanted? I want to be in a relationship with him so badly but I feel like I'm not good enough for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - hi, im 18 years old and there is this guy that ive been knowing since i as in middle school. after graduation from 8th grade we both went our seperate ways he was never a guy i would think i would have an interest in because he wa a nerd back ...

He said he didn't want to get serious with another female but should I trust what I hear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I was in an official relationship with a guy for a little over 3 months. Before that we'd met through some friends and got off to talking constantly right off the bat. The entire first month and a half of our relationship we'd talk every night for ...

Do you think his approach to me has changed since the last email?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - This guy with whom I've been in touch with for more than a year now, I always been the one emailing him and he always replying right away. We've become friends, he's a GI so mainly busy. Recenty got deployed and before he left, I wrote him wishing ...

Crazed and confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I recently started dating a guy that I had been friends with for about 8 months. Once we started acknowledging that we had feelings for each other, things moved ridiculously fast. A week ago, we went out on a date and every time he touched me, I ...

I'm going out of my mind for my younger dance teacher! Will he forget me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Ive realized I like my dance teacher who is younger than me... Not allowed to see him but have to or I'll die... If I do see him how can I flirt. N wat can I do to show him that if he asks me out I will say yes.... He flirts with me alot n I've ...

Can he still treat me well if he doesn't believe in God?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Ok my question is what do you do if you have this guy that treats you really great but he don't believe in god and that's really important to you and that he don't have a car or cell phone or job but he lives at home and he's going to be going to ...

We talk and flirt while drinking but....nothing ever comes out of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - So I go to this club every Friday night, it's a small place, you see a lot of the same people there every week. I met this guy there and it turns out he's a friend of one of my good friends I used to work with. A few weeks ago after the club had ...

How can I stop rejecting men who are perfect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Whenever someone asks me out, I say no. There's nothing wrong with the person but for some reason, I just automatically put this armor up and reject them. What can I do to stop rejecting men who are absolutely perfect?...

Does anyone out there understand a man's mind?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Here's a question for anyone who thinks they understand a mans mind! I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. Lived together from 3 months, looking back it was too soon and it caused problems. We did/do get on amazingly well, we have a very deep...