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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

My g/f has been away for 6 days and I sexted another girl. Do I tell my g/f?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Hi guys, This website is really great and I hope i can get some decent advice from you :) So first off I am going to admit I am a douche regarding what I did, and I feel terrible. My current gf who I have been seeing for five months now is...

My boyfriend has exchanged disgustingly sexual emails with girls online and when I confronted him, he said he was "bored" and then accused me of cheating!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - okay so i've been dating this guy now for almost two years. I thought he was perfect in almost every way. We're nearly the same person, which may be the reason for some of our heated arguments, but besides those few fights I thought we had a great ...

I've pointed out the red flags but feel like my g/f never gives me a clear answer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - So homecoming is coming up. I'm not going, i dont really like dances. But my gf is, and im really scared she going to be dancing on other girls since i'm not their with her. My friends keep telling me ,they see her playing with other girls. She ...

I have concerns about returning to my FWB. What should I do though? He wants to resume, but his past actions concern me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi I realise there is a lot of questions asked about this thank you for any answers in advance I just need some opinions on this situation I have been in a FWB for 18 months now he asked me if it could just be me and him sleeping together and not ...

How do I tell my husband that I'm pregnant with another man's baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - My husband and I have had alot of issues that we just cant seem to get over. 3 months ago I told him I was unhappy and didnt love him anymore and didnt want to be with him. we have 2 children together and he said to me if I left he would take the ...

My longterm boyfriend wants to sleep with someone else but doesn't want to cheat. Is a threesome the answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, and we have both only been with each other during our relationship. He has suggested him sleeping with another woman, but not wanting to cheat on me, suggesting a three-some. His ex-wife ...

I'm having a hard time letting go... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - This guy and I went on and off for 8 months. We moved extremly fast, moved in 2 weeks of our relationship., the first time we split he said he wasn't ready to be in a commited relationship, and the pain felt unbearable. 2 weeks after I was just at ...

Do these kind of men ever change???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - for about 6 months now, this married man and i have been fooled around. i have developed a lot of feeling for him. he lives away from me, so i only get to see him once or twice a month. recently ive learned that there are several other women hes ...

I'm afraid he isn't as serious as I thought he was about us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I've just become exclusive with a guy I've been seeing on and off for the last 12 months. He's told me he loves me and I'm the only one it just took him a while to realize it. I was at a friends tonight who was on her dating site and I saw his prof...

I found out recently that my ex cheated on me far more than I realized. Should I talk to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - So I was with this guy for 5 years; we didn't work out for certain reasons. And I've moved on, I'm dating someone else who I deeply care about. Recently i hung out with me and my ex's mutual friend and he confided in me that the entire time me and ...

I'm breaking up with my boyfriend because I found him on dating websites

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - hi, not going to be a long question but, i found out my boyfriend of nearly a year has been going on dating websites. He knows i know now and i told him im leaving him, but hes begging me not to saying he loves me and all that waffle, honestly im ...

My married lover has moved on to another girl and I am so hurt, what should I do now?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I have been cheated by my married Lover, he has moved on to a "new girl"(another victim).he has completely removed me from his life,We both are in the same office, spend 8 hrs together, sitting besides each other, but we dont speak at all. he cut ...

Do you think he is cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - First, my husband works on the pipeline, so he is gone for 3 weeks and then home for 3 weeks. This time, he worked for 8 weeks so he's been gone since july. We talk on the phone every night so I thought everything was fine, he was just working 16 hr ...

She broke my trust in her... what shall I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - i met one girl proposed her, she accept me with one condition need time to settle her other time pass love which is without sex, i said yes. in one year she went her ex room to settle with him lots of times, since i trust her i never said no to ...

The love has faded in my current relationship, and there is a new guy who I am falling for....what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a relationship of seven years. We live together and have dogs. A few months ago my boyfriend told me he didn't think he wanted to marry me (maybe anyone) and it really upset me at the time. However now I feel like maybe he...

My long distance boyfriend changed his relationship status from 'in a relationship' to 'single'. Is he cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I'm in long distance relationship with my boyfriend. He is Australian and I'm Indian. We both are sixteen years old. We met on facebook 2 months ago and he asked me for relationship after 1 month. I love him alot. Everything was going perfect ...

Married lover and I want to end our affair but keep going back for more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I've been having an affair for a year now. Married for 9 and a half years with 2 children. My husband is great and I honestly am not sure what lead to my affair? I have been in this affair with our neighbor who we see all the time so it's extremely ...

What do I do if my married lover's husband calls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (M) - hello dear cupid teams and ladies and gentelemen! Well z story might be silly and extremely heavy 4 one subject. We me 27 and a lady 31 have a secret love contact between us started a month ago.we have been get in touch by text and cell phone but ...

I have a crush on my boss' wife

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (M) - i am a male, gemini, married but not happy after 5 years and i am in love with my boss wife who have problems with him ever so often and i think she has a crush on me and now he kind of suspects us any help ...

Is my boyfriend keeping his options open?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I am not sure what to think. My boyfriend of six months is flirting with one of his clients, whom he also considers a friend. I have asked him if he finds her attractive and he has answered she is beautiful. They laugh a lot together from what I ...

If I tell all I think he'll break up with me. Should I keep the whole truth from him forever or be honest about my earlier cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I've cheated on my boyfriend of 1 year 3 times, but that was when we first started seeing each other. I didn't like him that much at that time and was still quite hurt/ messed up from my last relationship, which ended 2 years ago but that was my f...

Is he worth it? Part of me wonders if I should just give him a chance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy over the summer and we got on pretty well, but as far as I was concerned we were just friends. However, he started sending me really dirty text messages and basically wanted to hook up with me. I am a virgin and have never had anyone ...

Why did my married lover cut things off and say I wasn't part of his life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - Am a married woman having an affair with a married man, we both decided not to upset our respective personal lives because of our affair. From the begining controlled everything in our relationship ( laid down the rules like no phone,text,contact ...

Can I expect some kind of commitment from him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I have dated this guy for 2 months. It was a mess at first. Basically he dated me and my friend at the same time. I didn't know about this until my friend told me after a week. I talked to him and he said because we were not BF and GF yet so he...

What does this master manipulator want now?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...

I'm in love with a married man who is ready to leave his wife for me but I don't want to break up a family. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - I am in love with a married man. I am 23 he is 29. He is willing to leave his wife for me. She lives in another country. I don't know what to do, because ever though we are deeply in love with each other, i don't want to break up a family. They ...

Am I being used as a sugar mama in this marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I am 34 and my hubby is 30. We have been married for two years. I told him my age just when we met, and he hid his till about a year and half into the relationship. I never bothered much cos I thought he could be just a few months to a year old...

My boyfriend is a bit too friendly with his ex wife whom he cheated on before we met

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - i have been dating a wonderful man for 6 and a half months. when i met him he was still living his ex wife in the basement of their home because he was waiting for it to sell. they had a very rocky 17 year relationship that he was never happy in...

I treated her badly but now I want her back

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

18 September 2012 (M) - I cheated on a woman who was madly in love with me four years ago. Not only did I cheat on her, I disrespected her, lied to her, bit her, talked bad about her behind her back to co-workers and family members. I strung her along and I put her at risk ...

He cheated on me in the past but now he is trying to make up for it, even though he is engaged to someone else. I love him so what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - HI all iv posted on here before about an ex that seemed to trying to get back into my life, just wanted a little more advice. We split because within the first year of the relationship he cheated. We have a child together now. Hes showi...

My husband has been having an affair for 12 of the 14 years we have been married. I don't know if I should end the marriage.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - I am married for 14 years and has two kids. My husband is cheating on me for 12 years with different women. I got the chance to talk to one of his other women would you believe we just talk and didnt had a fight! They broke up because I have all the ...

How do I get over my backstabbing boyfriend who cheated on me with my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - My question is, how do I get over the fact that my heart belongs to a lying, cheating, sneaky, manipulator bastard who had sexual intercourses with my younger cousin who is now 21 and pregnant by him supposely? I been knowing this guy for 2yrs now ...

Does a cheater deserves a scond chance?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Just a little of insight please. I have just foud out that my hub of 3 years have cheated on me for 4 months.We have 2 sons, the youngest was only 1 month old whne he started sleeping with the other woman. He works deployed 4 months on, 2 months ...

I cheated on him 4 times when we were first together, we are now in love and wanting to get married....should I come clean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone..I need urgent help regarding this question...I broke up with a guy after being in a relationship for six years..This changed my life.. i became very careless regarding love and lusted for every single guy i knew..I started dating a ...

My boyfriend cheated on me, but keeps telling me he misses me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years after I found out he had cheated on me with a friend of mine. I was so devastated when I found out. I keep telling him I need time to figure out what I want to do, but he keeps emailing and texting me that he ...

Why am I getting texts saying that my b/f is cheating on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - i need help ! me and my boyfriend are going to be 10 months . i really fell for him , but since school started we dont see eachother everything we see eachother every weekand. but lately ive been reciving weird texts saying he " cheated on me " and ...

I got together with an ex and don't know how to tell the guy that I'm dating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - So basically I've been in an in and off relationship with this guy for nearly a year now. Sure we've has our differences due to the fact that I'm nearly 17 and he's nearly 22 so our life styles are a lot different. But I haven't really been fait...

I was the other woman for over a year and didn't even know it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Hi All In June i found out my boyfriend of 15 months had been having an affair... or infact i should say up until febuary he was leading a double life and i infact was his mistress. He had a girlfriend when he met me and managed to hide it until...

Stuck in the middle, I'm feeling trapped!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Hi guys, long story cut very short.. Basically I've been seeing this guy for just over 2years I havnt been in a proper relationship with him because he has a wife and he lives with her and all that malarkey! So I've basically just put up with being ...

Cheating, Players, Betrayal and Trust issues. Should a Player or a Cheat be forgiven? - a collective resource on these issues, with some great responses that may help you.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4476 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - CHEATING Today the feature topics are Players and cheating and Trust issues or can you Forgive or should you forgive if your partner Cheats? And the collective wisdom on DearCupid.org on Cheating on Betrayal, Loss of Trust and Forgiveness or n...

My fiance is joining the Army. She has cheated on me before and I'm scared she will again.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

15 September 2012 (M) - So I'm not really sure how to go about this question so ill do the best I can I'm 20 years old Me and my fiance have been together for 3 years...I'm disabled and I'm basically her stay at home cleaning man...recently she has decided to join ...

Am I just being paranoid about his strange phone behaviors or is there something to worry about here? And how would a normal person react to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - Earlier tonight I asked my husband to see his phone to hear a voicemail his brother had left. It seemed like he was going through some things and pressing a lot of buttons before handing me his phone. I am a paranoid person and I think I suffer from ...

Does going down on a woman frequently make her more likely to cheat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

15 September 2012 (M) - I want to ask a question please which I'd like the most honest answers to. There's a couple, male and female, and in this relationship the man is willing to go down on a woman all the time without question while making love and without being as...

He has been deleting his cell phone's history. How do I bring this up to him without accusing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - Im engaged, we have a family. We only have my cell phone, as his broke. We live together btw. So i found out that hes been calling his friends and then deleting call history and txt msgs. I dont understand why hes deleting it. He has every right to ...

My boyfriend wakes me up and wants sex, then falls back asleep. Does this mean he is cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

14 September 2012 (F) - For the past week or so my boyfriend of 2 years will wake up and then start kissing my neck telling me how much he wants sex.then he turns around and falls back asleep ..i don't understand why ....is it he is cheating on me and thinking i am that ...

After too many arguments I cheated on my girlfriend, with a guy! Now I don't know who I should choose.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

14 September 2012 (M) - I’m 18 years old guy and I’ve very strange situation in my life. It’s kind of about my sexual orientation. I cannot choose between a woman and a man. I’ve a girlfriend and I’ve been together with her for almost half a year. First everything was ...

He's obsessed with porn and thinks I will cheat on him. We constantly have awful, sometimes physical, fights. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

14 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone:) I really need some advice. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months and our relationship has been very terbulant! The first month we started datin it was fun but i did not take him too serious because i felt he was still ...

My coworker and I had an affair but now he doesn't seem interested anymore. What's the problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

14 September 2012 (F) - Hello All on this forum. I have a problem i really need help with. I think i have been foolish. A month or so ago i had sexual intercourse with a man from my office of work place. Sure he chased me and flirted with me and text me more than my husba...

My husband took pictures of women without their consent. Should I send him packing or report him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

14 September 2012 (F) - My husband is in his late 50's. The other day we were both at the mall shopping and he had his cell phone with him. I was in another area of the store shopping and we set a designated time and place to meet to allow us each enough time to s...

I moved my entire life for him, and he goes and cheats on me with his ex wife! I'm stuck here and don't know what to do....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

14 September 2012 (F) - My bf and i met online. We have a few mutual RL friends. He lived 8 hours away. We met up about april of 2011. He was going through a divorce and so was i. But we got along really well and were really miserable apart from eachother. I ended up ...