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writes:i need help ! me and my boyfriend are going to be 10 months . i really fell for him , but since school started we dont see eachother everything we see eachother every weekand. but lately ive been reciving weird texts saying he " cheated on me " and that " he is talking to other girls " . but then i notice him very very distant from me he ignores my calls he dosent make me feel the same way he did before. and yesteday we went to the movies with family and him , we got out the movies at 12; he got home around 3 am . his mom told me he got home at that time he claims to be with friends.? i broke up with him but i dont know if i should get back , i really dont know what to do . help me please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2012): Well you need to have a good talk with him and ask him does he still want to be in this relationship, or is he only there until someone else comes along. His behavior and these text messages are rather odd.
Definitely something to look into.
Good luck.
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reader, Nik9  +, writes (16 September 2012):
You should move on. You will meet more boys in your future. You will probably date several of them, have long-term relationships with others and eventually marry someone many years from now. You are young. DON'T waste your teenage years in a serious relationship with some immature guy. Focus on your friends because they will be in your life much longer than this guy, okay? I know because I'm 22 years old and I've been in your shoes. I went through three "relationships" in high school and none of those guys I thought I loved ended up with me. I met a man(not a boy) in college and he's more mature than all three of my boyfriends were in high school. You guys are just kids. Have fun and be free before you become an adult. I regret wasting so much time with my high school boyfriends and wish I would have spent more time with my friends.
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