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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years after I found out he had cheated on me with a friend of mine. I was so devastated when I found out.I keep telling him I need time to figure out what I want to do, but he keeps emailing and texting me that he misses me. I miss him too, but I am scared that if I see him I will just want to get back together with him. I want him to suffer for hurting me, but I am suffering too.When I tell him I need space, he will stop texting me for a week, but then start up again. Everytime I see a message from him it just upsets me. Why won't he leave me alone and give me time to think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2012): I am sorry that your boyfriend cheated on you. Was that the first time he cheated on you? Well if you are suffering for not being with him, you love him and you miss him, why don't you go back to him. I'm afraid men think differently, if you are trying to make him suffer the way he made you suffer, he might not understand your reasons behind prolonging your break !! It's not enough to tell him you need time to figure things out !! You know what I mean, we women, we tend to understand more between the lines and we read too much into every word and every action taken by a man. You are hurt there is no doubt about it, but I would say follow your guts and keep in mind everybody deserves a 2ND chance. Talk to him let him know how much you are hurt and tell him you need time by yourself to get over what happened and you will call him once you are ready to talk. I hope this helps. Good luck.
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reader, SamShaw  +, writes (16 September 2012):
Just explain when you say that you need space, that his usual week isnt long enough.
or say that once youve figured everything out youll get in contact with him..
Hope it helps..
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