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writes: I want to ask a question please which I'd like the most honest answers to. There's a couple, male and female, and in this relationship the man is willing to go down on a woman all the time without question while making love and without being asked to, would this mean that the woman would more likely be cheating on him? Doesn't this make the man look weak??Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2012): I as a female certainly wouldnt concider cheating is there really men out there who would do this happily without wanting something in return,you got a great guy so stop worrying
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2012): I'd say no. Cheating is a character flaw. Relationships always go through rough patches. A cheater is a person who responds to those hardships by cheating. There are many alternative choices.
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reader, bronzed adonis  +, writes (15 September 2012):
 A woman (or a man) will only cheat if they are a cheat. It does not matter how good or how bad you treat them. Reasons for cheating are excuses because the choice of leaving is available to them. imo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2012): Man, if this particular individual goes down on his girlfriend without being asked, he deserves a nobel prize for 'boyfriend excellence'! A girl will view that as a generous lover, she would be more likely to cheat if she WASN'T being brought to orgasm all the time, seriously, that's an advantage in this gentleman's case
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reader, person12345  +, writes (15 September 2012):
 There's this couple I know, and the woman is always willing to have sex with the guy. Doesn't that mean he's more likely to cheat? Doesn't that make her look weak??
Very few women get off from sex. The vast majority of women get off from oral. What you're essentially asking is does him making sure she has an orgasm every time make her cheat and make him less of a man. This is the same thought process behind female circumcision. If she enjoys sex, she will be more likely to cheat. So if they make her not enjoy sex, then she won't cheat.
Oral sex for women is like vaginal sex for men. A man making sure his woman is satisfied is the sign of a strong man and a good partner, not a sign of weakness. Making sure she is satisfied would be better for her staying faithful, not worse.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (15 September 2012):
Umm no...if a man won't do any of the above and has to be asked like it's a chore for him, I would say it would be more of a cause than him actually doing so.
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