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anonymous
writes:Hi AllIn June i found out my boyfriend of 15 months had been having an affair... or infact i should say up until febuary he was leading a double life and i infact was his mistress. He had a girlfriend when he met me and managed to hide it until i found out in June, he 'plucked up the courage' to finish with her in feb. I am disgusted that he could make me think I was his 'girlfriend' and he could lie to me for a whole year and let me think he would never cheat. more fool me. there were tears and tantrums and even vomit lol (he was sick) when i found out anyway.. we went away to a christening a couple of hours away as this was already arranged and we both know the family very well, so i agreed to go. while there we had such a good time that i thought ok maybe everyone deserves a 2nd chance, he has shown remorse for his actions, lets give this a try. but 3 months later and i'm struggling. i kept checking her facebook, i have now blocked it to stop me looking as there isn't any point upsetting myself. i just feel so hurt still. i found out his mums been away out with her yet she won't even speak to me!! yes what he done was terrible and i don't doubt for 1 minute his other woman is fine, i know she will be hurting too but i'm trying to deal with this and get over it as i truly love him but i'm struggling.. has anyone ever been in this situ?? he's been home late from work the last 2 days and it's got me paranoid. we work in same place so i know if he wasn't really there i could easily find out but still i'm paranoid. any advise would be lovely.. thank u
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2012): Jeez some people can be so rude on here...
I've been in a similar position.. Do u know he won't do it again.. No u don't but if it's a chance ur willing to take then fair play
Yes everyone deserves a second chance dear
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reader, Nik9 +, writes (16 September 2012):
I think it is very sad that you have decided to continue the relationship with this filth. Do you think he will never cheat on you? Do you think you are the special one who made him change?
You should have dumped him when you found out what he did to his ex and to you. He disrespected both of you and treated his ex that he was cheating on with you like garbage.
Please do us a favor and DON'T post a question for advice on how to get over this scumbag when he ends up cheating on you or dumping you for someone else.
You should have more respect for yourself and find someone better.
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