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41-50,
anonymous
writes:For the past week or so my boyfriend of 2 years will wake up and then start kissing my neck telling me how much he wants sex.then he turns around and falls back asleep ..i don't understand why ....is it he is cheating on me and thinking i am that person? 3times in one night....
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (14 September 2012):
 Guys must just see the world differently. I wouldn't miss such an opportunity. I certainly wouldn't wait until morning to ask.
So from my point of view, great opportunity. From her point of view, he's cheating.
I hope I'm not making light of a serious situation. I do believe that it is likely a dream / sleepwalking thing, completely at the mercy of his subconscious mind. Since you are awake, why not wake him up and tell him he turned you on. Not if he has an early meeting or something. But one good Paul Revere could cure the problem. Or at least let you sleep the rest of the night.
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BTW I have been told that I talk in my sleep.
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (14 September 2012):
It sounds like he is still asleep. If he sleepwalks, or sleep talks, he is more likely to engage in sexual advances or behavior while still asleep.
After he wakes up in the morning, why not ask if he remembers the kissing.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 September 2012):
 I have to wonder why this behavior makes you think he's cheating.....
sounds like dreaming and being asleep... and doing it in his sleep...
why would you think this behavior indicates cheating?
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