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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I'm trying to think of a way to get really good revenge on my ex

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) - I hate my ex girlfriend. And I can't stop thinking about getting revenge on her. First I will give you some background on the situation. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. The last year we lived together. When we didn't live together I thought ...

I don't know if I should dump my needy boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - well im dating this guy he is a very nice guy but he calls 24 seven. he never leaves me alone. i need time for my self and he wants me to be around him and i have things to do he would yell at me some times for saying i couldnt come over or talk he ...

Do I stay with my husband or live with my lover of 8 years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - To stay with the man I have been married to for 35 years or to move in with the lover of 8 years. Neither relationship is brilliant but the clock is ticking. Why am I so unsatisfied with my life?...

I broke up with my jealous LDR boyfriend. Did I make the right choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Well... to cut the story short I was in a LDR for 8 months with an American guy who's in the army. We got to know each other through a music site as we had similar taste in music. We eventually got to know each other better via IM, that's when we ...

My husband is living with his mistress but says he loves me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hi. My husband has moved out and in with his mistress. He met her on facebook and had an online relationship with her for several months before meeting in person. I found out shortly after, but he did not end the affair and now lives with her, has ...

I cheated and never told him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - im with my boyfriend 5 years and we have a daughter together and another child on the way. I should be happy but im not because i cheated at christmas and never told him the truth. Before you judge me listen to my story first. i was just 18 when i ...

Mistress is threating to tell my wife about us

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - I feel like I'm about to lose the best thing that ever happened for me behind ignorance. I know everyone's probably going to say I deserve it and I probably due but no one's perfect. I told my mistress that we needed to sto and she's threatening to ...

Is cheating/open relationship ok in this case?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year and up until recently things have been amazing. We're both in college and he's under a certain amount of pressure to be single, but he's always been more mature than them and has coped fine. ...

My married man won't respond

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Happy Halloween everyone. Well i have a new problem,I know the answer that everyone is gonna say but i just want some reassurance on what i need to do. I have talked to my friends and coworkers and they have said what i think i should do. This ...

Do you also believe that how he cheated on me and how I cheated on him is the same?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for a year now! I got pregnant when we had been together for like 8 months and 3 months later we got married. The thing is, when we had just started dating, about a month in the relationship I cheated (had sex) on ...

All I want is one good time together with this married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - there is a man who works at my school who is a good bit older than me but I can honestly say I dont think ive ever wanted to sleep with someone more. I know he is attracted to me but he is married. I just need to know how to tell him. i barely see ...

Like others, married wanting someone else.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I've been married for 4 years to a great guy. He is 14 years older than me. We only dated for about 6 months before we got married, but I thought he was the one despite our age difference. He has older kids that do not live with us. Being a step ...

I lost weight and now my husband thinks I'm cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I been with my husband for almost nine years we have 2 wonderful sons. A couple of months ago i got hurt at work so i was at home doing nothing which i started gaining weight. My husband never told me oh ur fat. Evevery thing was going fine. Well i ...

My husband is rubbing his affairs in my face!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have been reading your colume for awhile and i felt it was time to reach out to someone. iv been married for 24 years my husband 2 years ago took out a young girl out for valintines night.for the past 2 years their has been 2 different women call ...

Is it possible for a married man to get his mistress pregnant on purpose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I want to know how married men perceive on this matter. Is it possible for a married man to make their mistress or other woman get pregnant intentionally? Like he wants her to get pregnant?...

Is texting your girlfriend's friend behind her back classed as cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I need to know if you have been with your partner for a few years,and you find out that hes been texting one of your friends both doing this behind your back but no sexual contact is this classed as cheating?...

We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...

I'm in love with a married woman but won't leave my wife

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - I am in love with a married woman .How can I stop thinking about her so much. She is driving me crazy..I love her but will never leave my wife. Please help me!!!...

My girlfriend said it'd be okay if I received oral sex from another woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - OK, I've been in a relationship for the past seven months with out any infidelity towards my girl friend. I'll admit that I am the jealous type when someone hits on my girl and she loves that about me. Ever since yesterday, I ask her about giving ...

He is abusive and accuses me of cheating constantly. How do I stay away??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Me and my husband been together for almost 2 years we have a baby of 1 year . I love him alot and always have respected him. Since I was pregnant he has always accused me of cheating on him even when I was carrying his son. I have never gave him ...

Should I stay with my separated man and wait for my happy end, or hit the road after 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I'm in a bit of a bother here. I'm 26 turning 27 in 6 days and for the past 2 years I have been in love with Ed. Married. We got caught out in August 2008 after 2 months of sneaking around and she has gone mental on him. Calling the police, sayi...

I'm 18 and dating a 42 year old married man!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I've kind of dug myself a grave here. I'm dating a man who's 42, and I'm only 18. But there one huge problem that I used to let slide but now it's starting to get to me. He's married. I used to just brush it off, but every time I see his and her car ...

I want my cheating girlfriend back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - hi, im 18 years old and i just had my first relationship ever which ended yesterday, it was going on the 6 month mark. in our first month, she kissed/made out with two of her guy friends then told me about it( within 2 weeks of them both happen...

Torn between what is and what could be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - It’s long, but the depth is needed. First I would like to start with a back history.. My current boyfriend and I have dated once before about 3 years ago. We lived together for about a year and one night he kicked me out due to a phone call from ...

What should I do about this mess? And how do I get him out of my system for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - I'm writing this as i've been in this situation for too long now, just over a year in fact. I feel like i'm being manipulated and would appreciate any feedback. It all started when i got back in contact with somebody i knew from school, it ...

I think my husband is a sex addict! Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I need advice, me and my husband have been married for 15 years and have three kids. He has also cheated on me 3 times and one of the times got thown in jail for it and then three years down the road he cheated again. After the last time he cheated ...

Girlfriend will not treat me as a lover, no sex, kissing, nothing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I'm i being unfair when i get no physical contact in my relationship, on which i will elaborate. I have been dating my girlfriend now for close to two years. Within that period she has cheated on me. I found out that she was a escort on which ...

I need help getting rid of Mr Gutter!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I'm facing a real dilemna and really need advice asap. This past August I started dating a guy I met at a conference. We instantly clicked and things between us only keeps getting better and better. He's divorced with 2 kids who live with their ...

I want my married lover to take off his wedding ring when he's out with me

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - ok yall i have been dating this man for a least a years and some months! however our relationship is getting deeper and deeper everyday! when the two some us started dating we both agree to no feeling no attachment ! now that time change words have ...

I am a wifey in distress! Should I try to work it out with him or just throw in the towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am a Wifey in distress. I don't think my husband is in love with me whats worse is I think he is being unfaithful. We have been together since we were 14 ( I know right) we are now 29, we have 4 kids and we are busy people. He used to be ...

Could my dad be cheating on my mom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

27 October 2010 (?) - I was browsing through my dad's phone and saw a msg from a woman in our church giving him her banking details and said " i luv u c u on d....." What does that mean? Is he cheating on mom....

Do men really get afraid?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boss and I have been fooling around for about 6 months, no sex, no kissing, just fondling. We haven't gone further as he is very afraid of my husband finding out and hurting him. We are both married with children. Yet we continue to fool around. ...

Life after depression and big relationship problems, is there such a thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. Thank you in advance for reading this. This is not a short post and I am not in a very stable state of mind so the writing may reflect that. And thanks again for bearing with me. And I really appreciate every piece of advice I can poss...

My boyfriend cheated and lied like he was going for an emmy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend charles and I have been together for a year and 5 months. We have a three month old baby boy. During the last few weeks of my pregnancy we took a break. during this break he proposed that we would only have sex with each other we would ...

We broke up, but now she is cheating on new b/f with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Ok ill start off by saying that i dated my ex for 2 and a half years and we were friends for like 6 months before that. We took everything slow and we fell in love with each other. we had some problems at the end and she started ignoring me and ...

I am hooked on the calls from a married man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I am in love with a married man. We have known each other since High School. He has been married for 29 years. We have been talking for 1 year, we have never touched. We have talked about sex 7 or 8 times, the other times we talk about families, ...

Can I save what is left of my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - im having an affair with a 21 year old, but are still very much inlove with my wife, who on her end claim she divorced me coz of this girl, i so much wana get back with my wife and make things rite with her but only problem is this girl fell ...

Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...

I'm 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating. Do I leave him or stay because of the baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - Hi,I am 12 weeks pregnant and my husband is cheating with one of he's co-worker and she is married too I dont know who's the jerk, but this problem is driving me crazy I just don't know what to do. I must leave him or stay cuz of the baby?...thanks ...

I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...

I want to believe cheating boyfriend will change...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, after the first 6 months i found out he had profiles on a bunch of dating sites online and he had been communicating with one women and saying things like he wanted to start a relationship with ...

I've been cheated on so many times and now I've done it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - Hi i'm 15 and i've been in a relationship with my bf for 3 months exactly. I love him very much. We were friends for almost a year before we started dating. About a week into our relationship he almost cheated on me and when I found out I almost ...

I'm doubting my husband's honesty. Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I’ve been married to Mike for 4 years. The past year or so, I caught him contradicting himself constantly. Example 1: He took home a football team lanyard several months ago. He told me that the guard at work gave it to him. Yesterday he blurted ...

He says he's not a bad guy, can I believe him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - there is a guy and we used to kiss and snog but it didn't really mean anything i think it is something like friends with benefits? and we are really good friends. then he liked this girl and now they are going out. but me and him are really r...

I found naughty texts do I confront her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over 3 months. My friends don't think she is trustworthy. The other day I was going through her phone and I noticed a text from a guy named John. I clicked on it and it said thing like I want you so b...

Did I do something so horrific that is not forgivable, and should I feel this guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - My ex and I dated on and off for 2 years, never had a very positive relationship. It was started as her cheating on her boyfriend with me, and she started dating me. I was happy, and thought that she changed. She broke up with me (although I'll ...

Should I tell her about my past with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - My ex gf cheated on her then fiance, now husband with me. It happened after a night of drinks, a conversation that we wanted to be friends, and that she wasn't as happy as she was when she got engaged. I in a way started to think there was a chance ...

What can I do to forgive and forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I found out about a month ago that my significant other cheated on me about six months ago. We are not married, but we have been living together for 5 years and have two little boys. About a year ago she decided to go back to school. I told her to ...

A dream about him cheating on me made me feel more insecure than I ever was

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I know I shouldn't read into dreams, but last night I had a dream about my bf cheating on me. I saw him kissing another girl and we started to fight over it. I slapped him twice and yelled at him, asking if he left me for "something better". He said ...

I know he's a cheater but I'm always going to love him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - ok so i've been sleeping with the father of my child on and off after knowing that he has been sleeping with someone else. Sometimes i have to drag the truth out of him because i feel as if i need to know if he's sleeping with someone else. So ...