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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Simply homesick or seriously time to call it quits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - Hi All, I've been in a lovely relationship for 3.5 years now. Two years ago I took a big leap of faith and moved halfway across the world to be with this man (the first year we were both in the same city). Most days I am rather happy with this lit...

I'm feeling anxious since the break up. How do I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - Hey guys, I came here last week for some help over a really painful break up I'm going through. The one where my girlfriend broke up with me due to her mental illness (depression, anxiety and eating disorder). I received lots of very helpful ...

How did my close friend manage to keep all this to herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - I can't understand what happened on saturday night with this girl i'm friends with, i've known her three years and never seen this side of her!! She's always been a confident, talkative and happy girl. We're on the same course at university and I...

Should I push for him to decide how he really feels? Should I tell him my feelings alot(that I love him)? Should I push for us to meet in person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - 2 months ago I broke up with my then boyfriend of 2 years. I broke up with him because I thought he'd be better off with a girlfriend that didn't live 200+ miles away from him, and a girlfriend that he didn't have to leave his family to be with. ...

Problems with boyfriend, Facebook, and other girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and when we first started dating he would put stuff on his facebook without me having to ask him. But now it's like a war. I feel like its not fair to me that his ex's got sweet statuses and got to be his ...

I can't block the ex because we work together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Just a week ago my boyfriend told me that his no longer interested in me and wants to move forward with another girl. I have deleted all his contacts and pictures from my laptop and cell. Worst thing is we both are working in the same company. ...

Regaining sexual confidence after wife cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

30 March 2014 (M) - I have a question on confidence lost for a man after my wife of 20 years cheated on me. Basically we had been together for 20 years, I was 17 when we met, she was 16. About 2 and a half years ago she cheated on me with an old friend of hers. ...

Fallen in love with a guy who told me he is not ready to commit from the start.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - This is not my first broken heart. I've had worst. I just seem to not being able to let this one go. Scenario: I work in a healthcare industry as an Administrator, met an owner of a pharmacy who is 9 years older than me. He told me from the star...

I feel he has been rewarded for leading me on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was with my boyfriend for 9 months. The relationship ended because I pushed him to move in with me and he was clearly not sure. I was patient but then he decided to end it with no reason as to why. He never formally did this - just ...

My boyfriend wants me to break it off with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Any one good at body language?? I think my boyfriend I had over a decade is trying to get me to dump him but I can't he started a fight today.. even during the fight he said I'm not breaking up with you, your gonna do it this time is what he said.. ...

I need help in understanding ......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker, combined. Firstly let me say that this is kind of my last hope of getting some actual real advice. I have been with this guy for a year now actually a year since yesterday. Lately he's been really distant,...

Why did he give up on the relationship so easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Hi. Need some advice . I was in a relationship for 4 years and we loved each other. He kept me very happy and was always there for me. He was the best in happiee times but worst during rough patches. A small arguement was good enough to make him ...

My boyfriend seems more interested in crossdressing than in me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I were dating for 2 years and we had sex every day then everything stopped and nothing happened negative between us. I was shocked and beyond upset one day I found erotic pictures of him dressed completely as a woman. He started ...

I'm questioning my break-up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone, Thank you for taking time out to read this, especially since it is so long. I was in a relationship for 14 months. He and I got along very well. I have never enjoyed someone's company as much as I did with him. I found him engagi...

8 months and I am still beating myself for the break-up. help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - My bf of 8 months broke up with me. He was my first boyfriend. he said "We are comfortable but it doesnt mean it's gonna go anywhere." He said he originally planned to just let it fade away. He said he has been thinking for a few weeks and that I ...

Can I never trust a guy after this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Please help me. In January I met a guy in Facebook and we both started chatting. After few days of chatting we both exchanged our contact number and he started calling me. After few weeks we decided to meet at one of his friends home. We both wer...

How do I decide whether or not the relationship is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - My partner of three years and I have recently been having some problems. Now I believe we are genuinely starting to work through them and he is happy in our relationship but I have been left with niggling doubts that all problems aside, we are just ...

My wife disgusts me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 March 2014 (M) - Hello all! I am almost 41 years old and I have been with my wife since 2001. There are still some things that thrill me about her, but often I wonder what I ever saw in her. She is lazy, drinks too much liquor, has let her good looks go, and a...

He disappeared from my life and now he is back, should I hear him out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 March 2014 (?) - Hi everyone, I had posted a question a while back (My boyfriend has disappeared and I'm very worried.) After a about almost two months now I have moved forward but was still wondering what had happened I heard from him. I was looking at my em...

I genuinely thought I was over my ex, but lately I keep thinking about him and it's getting me down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hi guys, I'm having a bit of a rough time at the minute. My relationship with my ex ended 2 years ago after several break-ups and him cheating. However, we do consider each other friends and do speak every so often. I thought i had moved on and...

Should I give it another try? Really miss him, but he's still broken over his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for 2 months, and i really like him, but hes not over his ex girlfriend. She dumped him and she is now seeing one of his best friends, so he's really hurting from it still. However we had an amazing 2 months together spe...

My ex and I made each other miserable, but we had a spark I don't feel with my current boyfriend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - I was completely in love with someone a while back. Person B. It was the first time I had ever fallen for someone, and It was insanely intense. One thing lead to another and we ended it. While we were a rather passionate couple, we made eachothe...

I ended it with my difficult BF and now he is being so sweet and I'm confused.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles. Please advise!! I split with my BF of 3.5 years about two weeks ago. The relationship was volitile and difficult. I really loved him , but was not seeing him enough , and did not feel he was making enough effort to keep me in ...

I need some help getting through a terrible break up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

26 March 2014 (M) - I've been suffering through a terrible break up and I need some encouraging words and help to get through it. My gf and I were together about two years. We split on Sunday because she couldn't handle a relationship anymore. She deeply suffers f...

I feel bad for making him suffer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - Hi, this is my problem: I was really in love with this bodybuilding guy. He was the only guy who had ever treated me with love and cared and pampered me and spoiled. He was almost perfect. We were really in love and by no means would we ha...

How do I stop getting dumped?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - Recently my girlfriend who I loved very very much dumped me. Safe to say gutted. I've never loved like that before. I thought we would get married. I seem to always get my heartbroken as I've never dumped a girl. My ex told me she only seen me...

Am I right to wait for this girl after she broke up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - Here's my situation: I've been in a relationship with this girl for 9 months now. She's a wonderful girl, and complements me in so many ways that I really thought we were sort of perfect for each other. I'm more of a cynic and don't get 'happy' ...

I feel like he can't see past our rocky previous relationship, but I want to move forward and start a new one with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - Okay, I'll apologise in advance, because this may take a while. I met my partner when we first started university back in September. We got together in November and the relationship started off okay. There were a few things I felt uneasy about th...

Since he doesn't like me, how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - i thought a shy friend of mine liked me, but now i've come to the conclusion that it was all in my head. I only thought he liked me because of our mutual friend's teasing (i.e. making references about me being his "boo/girl", asking me multiple...

How should I apologize to him? I wrongly listened to a manipulative ex-friend. He was not in the wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Hi there. I have never felt this guilty in my life before, which is why I want to seek help here. So, there is a guy in my new organization who likes me. It's been only a month now, when I joined a new job. He is different in all the ways. He comes...

I still have feelings for my ex, but she didn't reply to me. I deleted her number; what should I do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - I can't stop thinking about my ex-girlfriend. We broke up 6 months ago. I asked her out for drinks tonight; she said she will let me know but she never text me back. I am here over thinking and trying to get my mind off but I am going crazy. I ...

My current boyfriend versus. my ex... help!!! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hi, just going to skip to the point realy, My ex-boyfriend- i still have little feelings for him,but they aren't as extreme as some people think, i don't know what to do though. We hardly talk anymore and i'm still in teenage years so you kno...

I'm 25 and afraid its too late for me to find love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hey everyone....so it has happened again, broke with my forth boyfriend. It took me two years to get over my third boyfriend but this time we broke up like 5 days ago and I am fine. In fact I am ready to jump back in dating scene. But my worry is t...

While we were apart, he slept with a lot of girls, including one night stands and gave me an STI when we reconciled. How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Hi everybody any advice will be appreciated. Me and my boyfriend had been together four years when I got into a university in a different country to do medicine. It's a five year course and I would be living four hours away from home. After much...

Fell pregnant after a holiday fling, now he wants to meet to discuss my choice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - I fell pregnant after a holiday fling last year when my group of friend met a few guys at the same hotel. I decided to have an abortion because I wasn't in anyway ready for a child. Plus I couldn't see the child's father being supportive at all ...

Facing the guy that hurt me, advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I posted not long ago about my situation with a boyfriend who I met at my works meal and he was our waiter, he was very full on telling me that he loves me after 2 weeks and took me to meet his mum then dissappears on me and I never hear from ...

Boyfriend angry about an incident where he thought I was cheating and its destroying our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Long story as short as possible. Been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. We don't live together at the moment but have been talking about it once my lease is up. A few months ago we'd started fighting and this caused him to distance himself. We ...

I'm virtually going to be homeless and this man has hurt me more than I can say! I'm so lost and afraid, how do I cope?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, would love some advice as this issue has gotten to bad its tearing me apart. A few months ago I was a single mum with a one year old. Then a friend ive known for years came into the picture and long story short we moved in with him. I g...

This guy is a scum. Do I tell his gf?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - My ex dumped me about a year ago. We had been together for 4 years, including 2 years LDR. We planned to get married, but he broke up with me 2 months before we could finally see each other. He thought I was too clingy. He cheated on me twice before ...

IS it crazy for me to try to work things out with my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - I broke up with my bf last November after being together for 2 years. We're both in our mid 30's and were in somewhat of a long distance relationship causing us to only see each other on the weekend. The main reasons for the breakup was that we were ...

Should I get back with my ex even if he took advantage of me financially?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago and after seeing him at work . He texted me Good job tonight and he feels hurt and embarrassed to take a break from relationship. Should I get back with him even if he took financially advantage of me? I...

I'm interested but she's in the middle of heartbreak

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

19 March 2014 (M) - Here's the story, there's this girl who I've taken an interest in, when I started talking to her, really talking she suddenly opened up about this guy she's been seeing, she was madly in love with him but as it turned out he wasn't with her, ...

How do I move on from an affair and a breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I posted before but for those who didn't read it... here is my story Late 2013 I moved abroad with my boyfriend. I had met him out there travelling and he came back with me to our home country(both from england), but we decided to move ...

Boyfriend made fun of me, says I dress to impress other men and then broke up with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - hello I am Iin desperate need of help! Last night me and my boyfriend got into an argument about him being very critical of everything I wear! He made jokes and basically called me a hoochie!I told him I didnt like Iit and he shouldnt call me that. ...

She broke up with me and I'm scared to let her into my heart again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

17 March 2014 (M) - Me and my girlfreind broke up 2 weeks ago. She ended it and it was a massive shock. She said her feelings weren't as strong and didn't love me. I loved this girl sooo much and i ask her to give us some space and see. I call her before (yes i kn...

I didn't want this breakup, how do I get over it with my dignity intact?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - I've been dating a man for almost a year. On numerous occasions, over the past year, he has asked for time and space bc he is dealing with something stressful with work or his family. I have respected this and have done my best to give him what he ...

He acts like he doesn't know the first thing about me! Should I give up for good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - Some of you may know some of my relationship history with my past questions. I am still back together with my children's father. But still having issues. Nothing has helped and now the little things are starting to get on my nerves. Is it normal to ...

My ex won't let me move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - Ok so... I had been with my ex boyfriend for 2 years. We had a very toxic relationship and looking back i really wish i had got out sooner. We would constantly argue, he was very spiteful towards me, he was addicted to porn lied to me on a numbe...

How do I stop basing my life around him and his visits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I was with my ex for 3 and half yrs on and off , we broke up last time In November last year although it was just like any other time I imagined where we would reconcile after a few weeks or months . This time though I found out just after Xmas he ...

He uses his past as an excuse for all the drama

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm 27 years old and been dating a 37 years man, He's physically been there for my daughter and I and very kind and sweet to us but he has an mental issue where he always use his past for excuse for, I loved him, but I think it's time to move ...