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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I resolve this problem? My trust in him has gone as I have a suspicion that my husband may have taken nude pictures of me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - In the past my husband has snapped pictures of me in the shower and changing. I told him to delete the pictures each time. I have told him he can't take nude pictures of me without my consent. This all started after we got married. Recently...

I'm legally changing my full name by law for the health of my mind...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3471 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid Readers Have you got any advice or guidance for a legal name change? My past has been painful and life experience has been full of regrets. Certain events have felt so crucifying to the heart that I've decided to change my name i...

Am I Too Fussy For Not Wanting To Date Guys Who Are Much More Successful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - I'm in my early 20s, and now that I'm not in uni and have different social circles a lot of older (not massively, in their 30s) guys seem pretty interested in me. I like some of them for who they are/looks, but I always get turned off by the fact ...

Are my concerns justified ? He's joined the army and I'm worried that the army will change him and our relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Ok so I just got married to a guy I have been with for about three and a half years. I love him so much, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He has just enlisted in the national guard/reserves and is currently in basic training...

I found my dad is cheating on my mom... AGAIN! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I feel very sad and disappointed. I just found my dad has been texting another woman. This is the third time I find out he does this. The first two times I have told my mom about it and she tried to deal with it. The last time thi...

My beloved girlfriend died in a car accident. How do I move on from this? Would she be at peace with me moving on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

26 June 2015 (M) - Hello. I loved a girl who I was going to get married to very soon. Recently while on a trip with her mother. They met with a car accident on their return. Unfortunately it was a major accident and it led to her death on the spot and her mother...

I just want someone to tell me if my feelings are justified?!! Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and things have never been perfect from the start but I chose to ignore the first warning signs. We met years ago then lost contact and started talking online again 3 years ago, we decided ...

Should I leave my wife?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2910 days ago

24 June 2015 (M) - Should I leave my wife? I have always trusted her, but because she had gone out one night about 5 years ago and returned home at 4:30 in the morning, I had started to have concerns. That night, I was supposed to pick her up at 11:00. I had cal...

Is this stress I feel and the emotional shut-down I experience a normal reaction to the trauma of seeing my friend pass away in an accident when I was a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3476 days ago

23 June 2015 (M) - I am from a small town. Many many years ago I was not old enough to go to school. I went with my mom to get my older brother. We picked him up and and were heading home. My brother's best friend used to ride his bicycle home everyday. My br...

Dating for three years and no sex despite my efforts to initiate! Why isn't he interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Hi. I have a question about my relationship with my bf. We've been together for almost 3 yrs now and we rarely ever get sexually active. We haven't had sex yet. Neither one of us has had it before and when we try we don't get very far. He is 27 and ...

Would you date someone who was missing one of their hands?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

22 June 2015 (M) - My continued dating adventures have recently led me to confront this issue. Would you date someone who was missing one of their hands, and why or why not? I'm interested in all perspectives. ...

My boyfriend's parents aren't taking proper care of his little sister and I'm worried he may try to gain full custody of her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, This isn't a typical dear cupid topic, but it's about my boyfriend and his relationship with his family so I guess it's something.. Anyway. My boyfriend(20) of 4 years is seriously considering contacting social services about...

He claims to have picked me over all these gorgeous women but compares me to them anyway! Should I be flattered or hurt?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few months and there is something that is starting to get me down. I'd like to know if I'm right to be a bit upset about it. We met each other on a dating site, we get on quite well and we are both very open p...

Nothing happened, but I wish I could have slept with this old friend! What does that mean for my current relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3476 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I am in a long term (six years) relationship. I do love my boyfriend buthe works all the hours there are in his job. I see him rather infrequently. I met an old friend a month ago for a catch up. We got on really well and it was so lovely.to catch ...

He promised me he'd stop saving inappropriate pictures, but I caught him again and have threatened to move out! Is he being disrespectful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - My man and I live together and have had a long term relationship. He started viewing nsfw pictures and saving them to his computer from a social site we both belong to. He promised he would stop but I found out he is doing it again. Sometimes ...

I have feelings for my biological cousin, but we're both married. Should I back up and run before it's too late?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I need help! I'm a 23 year old female who's catching feelings for her bio cousin. He is 22. We were raised together until about 6, when he was adopted out. I finally found him all these years later on Facebook. So here it is, a year later and we've ...

Depressed and way behind the average 21-year-old. How do I fix my life/stop beating myself up over past mistakes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - [Mod note: user's own title] I've pretty much wasted my life from 16 to 21 (possibly all my life) largely due to issues from emotionally abusive family. Anyone know how to stop "mentally beating yourself up" over lost time, esp. when said procrast...

It's been two or three years since we broke up, so why am I just now having recurring dreams about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - It's been 2 or 3 years after my ex dumped me. I don't remember exactly how long. I do sometimes think about him, but we stopped all contact 1 year ago. I haven't dated anyone after we broke up. I don't know why I dreamed about him a lot recently, ...

I don't want things to get uncomfortable at work, but could she be indicating that she likes me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

22 June 2015 (M) - I have this coworker, She have a BF who lives in New Jersey and we live in Texas and work at a restaurant together. She's sarcastic to me, sometimes laughs at my jokes, we hung out once at my house before work just watched tv for 30mins Tod...

Has he got a compulsive addiction? Dating him for 4 years. My bf's unusual obsession is joining free dating sites.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I have been in a relationship for more than 4 years. This has been held back by my bf's unusual obsession with joining free dating sites. It had been a good few months and I really thought he at last had learned his lesson. Clumsily he ac...

We've been having arguments over silly things. Is it frustration that could be causing me to get angry so quickly? But if his cousin speaks badly of me should he speak up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Okay, so I haven't used my dear cupid a little bit over a year. I first got it when I was in 8th grade or a freshman; when I was in my first serious relationship. I had put some stories on how I was pregnant at 16 and so forth. Anyway's, ...

Where does that spark to want to do good in the community come from? Why do some lose it? Why do some never want to give back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - Hello everyone. I maybe have a somewhat different question. I was wondering what happens to people when they lose their passion towards wanting to do good, to help the society, and instead want to just earn as much money as possible, even i...

What I don't understand is why the ladies never initiate contact with me to set up a game. Why not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

19 June 2015 (M) - I'm in my 40's and I like to play tennis. I've asked some ladies to play, and it's fun. (BTW I'm married, and most of them are too.) What I don't get, is why they never call/e-mail me to ask if I'm up for tennis. When I contact them, usuall...

How can we save our relationship? He's controlling, has a temper, takes me for granted and he's not the man I fell in love with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - Hey there, I hope this won't be too long but I'll give a little back-story. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I used to be crazy about him. He was in the military for the first 3 years, then moved back home and found a job - it was our ...

What can I do about guys at work who are bullying me and treating me differently?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

18 June 2015 (F) - Im a black woman who is not mixed. I have an online job and white guys are bulllying me. They know what I look like and they refuse to answer questions directly from me instead they relegate a woman to do this task. Sometimes during n...

Was that night a hookup or something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

17 June 2015 (F) - So there's this guy that I have liked for a long time. I have been crushing on him for a month. Me and him are friends but we talked occasionally. When we see each other we talk so much and joke around. We were texting one day and he stopped ...

He was separated, we shared a kiss, now somehow I'm a scarlet woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

17 June 2015 (F) - Hello So I need a bit of advice on how to go about a certain situation. Years ago, I met a man through mutual a mutual friend on a night out. He told me he was separated and had moved out of the marital home 7 months earlier, which my friend ...

Is this bullying? Jealousy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

17 June 2015 (F) - I work with an older woman and she is quite an honest person. But there is honesty , and then there is going too far. I don't understand what her issue can be with me. She's always criticising my hair. ( I have a few split ends, a lot of people d...

Who do men like about being in relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

16 June 2015 (F) - Why dont men admit they are with someone, when u really no they are, even when u ask them still wont admit Find it so confusing ...

Is it weird to track your BF/GF's whereabouts on Find My Friends App on iPhone?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - What does everybody think of tracking your boyfriend or girlfriend's whereabouts on the Find My Friends App on iPhone? Where you use GPS to know exactly where they are on a map (or where their phone is) at any given time throughout the day... unless ...

His attitude towards me wanting a child in the future is affecting how I treat his 3 year old!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years. He has a three year old son with another woman. They only dated for about a month and accidentally got pregnant and things didn't work out between them. I was originally ok with the situation. I ...

How do I end things with my partner so I can date the guy I truly want to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3488 days ago

9 June 2015 (M) - I've Been with my boyfriend for 7 years this year and always thought I'd spend the rest of my life with him. He's the only person I've ever slept with and considered him my soulmate . Btw were both gay males. He has had numerous girlfriends before ...

I have no desire to get back together with my first love, but he keeps contacting me and I am running out of excuses!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

9 June 2015 (F) - How do you get rid of a first love who keeps coming back? I know I'm going to sound like a nasty, selfish person - but obviously I'm not nasty and selfish enough - as I still can't seem to shake my first love off. The thing is - we (I'll call...

I miss my best friend, but I'm afraid I'll never see her again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3491 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - I need help my best friend moved 4-5 years ago now and I missed her I have vague memoiirys of her, we meet when I was in first grade and we were best friends forever soon she left to live with her sick grandma and now I live in the same state as she ...

How can I tell her I'm not going to visit her? Or should I visit her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

8 June 2015 (M) - My friend that I've known for about 4 years, okay let me add a back story first. She used to do meth, and I hated it I told her it was so stupid to pay money for something coffee can do. I got sucked in I took her to buy that stuff I didn't want ...

Am I being selfish and attention seeking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

7 June 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, My family has been through a lot of tragedy and difficult times in the last few years and being the eldest I have tried my level best to support my single mother through these times. This has included me putting myself out ( willing...

How can I go forward in the face of all their disapproval and lack of validation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3492 days ago

6 June 2015 (F) - Lately, I'm slowly falling into a deep depression. I'm 26 and getting older. My nieces and nephews are going to high school and life is changing. My family has always put this immense pressure on me to have this life that was just not destine...

How can I stop feeling the way I do, about how his ex had a child easily and I'm having so many problems conceiving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3493 days ago

6 June 2015 (F) - I hope to have positive answers, not negative ones. Ok, so here it goes, My husband and I are trying to conceive, its difficult, many different reasons, I have an abnormal monthly. I don't ovulate as I should, I have whatever other problems wit...

I can't remember if I cheated on my fiance, or not, last year, as I was so drunk. Should I tell my fiance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

5 June 2015 (F) - My fiance are together seven years, and for two years we struggled with infertility, which had us fighting a lot and caused a lot of resentment, stress and guilt for me. I felt like I had failed him, I couldnt give him what he wanted most. Last y...

Are there guys out there who actually don't like strip clubs?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

5 June 2015 (F) - Are there guys out there who actually DON'T like strip clubs? I live in a mining town and strip clubs are starting to pop up everywhere, and since mining is a very male dominated field, guys go there after work to bond, and blah blah. I've been tol...

I'm so happy with the dog and our family of three that I don't feel the need to have kids anymore. Has anyone else been in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

4 June 2015 (F) - My partner and I have been trying to conceive now for nearly 2 years without any luck. When we originally began trying, starting a family was all I could think about. I'd always wanted to become a mother and my maternal urges nearly all-consu...

Would you ever ask your spouse to take a lie detector test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

3 June 2015 (F) - If you thought that your spouse was cheating on you or was doing something weird but never had any evidence except weird behavior and lack of affection. Would you ask them to take a lie detector test? Why or why not? No missing time. No...

Do women lose interest when he starts taking you for granted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

3 June 2015 (F) - Is it normal for a woman to lose interest in a man when she feels he no longer finds her special . I find that when im in a relationship with a man and he begins to start noticing other women more than me ir not making me the main focus of his ...

Do I confront him or stop talking to him because of his dating site profiles?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3496 days ago

3 June 2015 (F) - i met a man online and he's 3 years younger at 25 now 28 and doing very well for himself. We have been together 2.5 years now and have been there to listen and comfort each other when life threw setbacks at us despite us being more than 2000 mil...

Am I over-reacting or has the jealousy bug bitten me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

2 June 2015 (M) - I began attending a beginners class in language with my girlfriend as she thought it would be fun if I joined. In the class there is a guy who talks to her a lot even while the teacher is giving her lecture. Now at first this did not bother me be...

Do men see ''love'' and ''future'' differently?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

2 June 2015 (F) - Do men have different opinion of “love” and “future”? I have been seeing a guy for almost three years. He is constantly telling me he loves me, but lately if feel there is something not right, that I might not be more than a friend with benefits...

How, really how do I get out of the rut I'm stuck in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

2 June 2015 (M) - Hello People , I am looking for a glimmer of hope or I am not sure . But well I am 29 and have pretty much wasted life from 21 and have been at a standstill for all these years. Currently still at home , have been in a job for years but not ...

Why family should not offer idealised sex education, and instead offer realistic, non-rose-tinted sex education

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3479 days ago

2 June 2015 (F) - I was brought up by my happily married parents. Although my Dad is more awkward, my mum has always been pretty candid about sex. There was no big "talk" when I turned thirteen. More simply, as a child I was always able to ask whatever I wante...

Am I over analysing our LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3497 days ago

2 June 2015 (F) - I started talking to this guy nearly a year ago. I liked him from the first moment we started talking (through Facebook due to mutual friends). We talk every single day and are very affectionate to each other. I have no doubt in my mind that he ...

Are men turned off by bigger women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

1 June 2015 (F) - I've always been a bigger woman and I've always wondered if it was a turn off to men. I'm overweight, nothing too drastic. I have bigger hips and thighs than the average normal weight person. This is the result from years of eating prob...