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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have this coworker, She have a BF who lives in New Jersey and we live in Texas and work at a restaurant together. She's sarcastic to me, sometimes laughs at my jokes, we hung out once at my house before work just watched tv for 30minsToday she texted me asking if I was at work; which coincidentally was the I was off work.. I texted back saying yes, I'm still at workThe first word I saw was never mind and just a long textThe text sent me a vibe that she may want to hang. Then I texted if she wanted to hangShe said no sorry, and just said she wanted to know what time She workedDoes this sound like she likes me?I don't want things to get weird at work you know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2015): Eh, with these situations (the person has a partner already, and you're only willing to act because you THINK she's interested) it's just safest to assume there's nothing there and nothing meant by her words/actions. If SHE is taken and she's still interested, then let HER make the first move.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 June 2015):
 Do NOT tell her preemptively. IF she makes a pass at you then you say "sorry I don't date co-workers" and that's that.
but do not make the assumption that she wants to hook up.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 June 2015):
 Treat her as you would ANY other co-worker. IF she suggests "hooking- up" just tell her, no thanks. But for you to think you have to inform her that you don't want a hook-up is not necessary.
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reader, Help from Lisa  +, writes (22 June 2015):
 If I was you, I wouldn't say anything unless you are sure.Saying that you don't want to hook up to her might makes things complicated or awkward. Especially if she stops speaking to you as much or starts to act strange around you. Like I said before, it doesn't seem she likes you in that way so it is best left unsaid.
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reader, Help from Lisa +, writes (22 June 2015):
To me that doesn't say she likes you more than a friend or co worker.It means she is comfortable with you and you get on pretty well. These doesn't seem to be any indexation that she like you that way, if she did i'm sure she would act differently to that.
If she was smiling a lot at you and laughing at you when your not trying to funny, and won't always look you in the eyes all the time and when she does, smiles and the typical little things that girls do.
I hope this helps you
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2015): My brother is the manager, I don't want issues at work,
I was asking so I know if I should just tell her I don't want to have any kindof hook up
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 June 2015):
So because her boyfriend is not local you think she's interested?
Just because a couple is not living together does not mean that their relationship does not deserve respect.
She sounds like a friendly co-worker and nothing more to me.
are you TRYING to read into her behavior because you like her and would like to have more?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 June 2015):
If she has a Bf she should be OFF limits for you. Does her calling you and going never mind sounds like she is interested? not really it's too little to go on.
But I can't reiterate it enough, when SOMEONE has a BF/GF they OUGHT to be off limits.
If she was interested, she would be interested in cheating on her BF.. that means USING you short term, and that is NOT very attractive...
So walk away from that one, and find someone who is single.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (22 June 2015):
 She could be fishing.... trying to find out whether you are interested in her... which would be a bad idea. She has a BF.
Rather keep things professional. If she is really into you then she must break up with the BF.
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