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writes:I started talking to this guy nearly a year ago. I liked him from the first moment we started talking (through Facebook due to mutual friends). We talk every single day and are very affectionate to each other. I have no doubt in my mind that he is interested in me though it has never been clearly stated. Here's the kicker: he lives 2 hours away in another state. We are both very busy people and at a stage in our lives where money is not easily accessible. Because of this we have seen each other a hand full of times In person. Sometimes I think we don't make enough effort to see each other in person... Which sometimes makes me question his feelings-- perhaps I could be wrong and he only likes me as a friend? Or am I over analysing? A lot of people tell me that if he really liked me he would make more of an effort. I understand that, but I also understand how much of a burden traveling that much is. I was wondering if I should start being more direct with my feelings (as in just be like "I like u will u be my boyfriend") or if I should just suggest more hanging out and hope our feelings will finally be professed or I should just leave it as is... Ahhh help! Thanks in advance xx
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reader, Over 50 advice +, writes (3 June 2015):
 Bingo! you just answered your own question of course you need to tell him what you want and expect and if he doesn't have it move on, pretty simple if your not happy it's not worth it. You know what you want and need, good luck
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