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writes:Why dont men admit they are with someone, when u really no they are, even when u ask them still wont admitFind it so confusing Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 June 2015):
 I've never met a man who didn't admit to it. So my best guess is that these guys you talk about are cheaters. You've had some bad luck only meeting such lousy men. But I've never come across them, so I don't know what to tell you. Bad neighborhood? Bad circle of friends? Not all guys cheat and lie about being in relationships, but since the guys you know apparently do so, then I suggest you try to get away from the crowd you hang out with and find someone better.
Only a guy who wants to cheat and be disloyal would deny being in a relationship, if he's actually in one.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (17 June 2015):
 We like to keep our options available in case some nyphomaniacal hottie comes along.......
We do like it when you are available, of course....
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2015): The ones who WON'T admit it are PIGS who are looking to get into the pants of other women, anyone who will BITE!
Simple!
They want to think of themselves as free agents. Not tied down.
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (16 June 2015):
Not ALL men do this - just some of them. And presumably someone you know. Who is this guy? We might be able to advise you better if we know what's happened to prompt you to ask the question. Otherwise it's just a sweeping statement that simply doesn't apply to all men.I think if people don't admit that they're seeing someone, it's usually because the "relationship" is not formal and they don't want to portray themselves as a "couple". Perhaps because their "partner" is not "the one" and they are still looking. Perhaps it's early days and they don't know how things are going to pan out. Maybe they're just undecided whether they want a formal relationship with anyone. Maybe they want to spare their partner embarrassment and it's a joint decision that they don't go "public"And perhaps they believe who they're seeing (or shagging) isn't anybody else's business
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