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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I was wondering is it normal to only be able to visualize yourself from a third person perspective?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - I was wondering is it normal to only be able to visualize yourself from a third person perspective? I'm really shy and I've noticed when I think about stuff I did in the past like going out to get some food I can only see myself like there is a ...

In love with a murderer...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - *OP's own title* I consider myself to be a great catch. Cute, educated, fun, kind, caring, etc. I have not had luck finding a lasting relationship, and about two years ago, I went on a website where prisoners post ads for pen-pals. I wrote to a few ...

Did I cheat? Am I obligated to tell my wife what happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - One night in the first year my wife and I were together we got into a huge fight and we broke up. we wernt married yet. She left my house and went home and at the time I was completely devastated. I went out to an all night grocery store where ...

Someone get my name off this mortgage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - how can i get my ex to give me financial settlement for our house. she wont sell it, ignores all solicitors letters, when i met her 5 years ago i had 30k and we used it to do the house up and had a couple of ...

When is the right time to move in together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and a half months nw,ever since we dated we been spending a lot of time together and we spend nights together,i have my own rented house but i spend most of my time at his house,we are thinking of moving in ...

I'm at my lowest ebb, what do you advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - im so fed up with my life.please listen to me-hopefully you can advise. im 35 years old im living at home-why ? because last year my world fell apart. i left the guy who had been my fiance for 6 years. i got sick of the mental battering and he...

I feel sexy in women's underwear, would I be considered a transvestite?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - so here go...i am a straight man that loves women....i have no sexual or emotional attraction to men. however I like to ware womens panties and thongs...they make me feel sexy. not into anything else like dresses, though I've tried it. I am ...

Is she confused or scared or just playing me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - I am a shy guy and this girl found me in office. She seems much younger. There is nothing much charming about me, but this girl went nuts when she saw me. She giggled whole day looking at me from her desk and sent on vibes that were too strong. I ...

Am I doing anything wrong by chatting to my female penpal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - I have signed up to a penpal site and have started talking to a girl. Should I feel bad or guilty as I have a girlfriend – I’m not flirting merely chatting and she knws i’m taken but I don’t think my gf would be to pleased if she knew. Am i doing ...

Should I make this gigantic life change for the woman I love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

31 March 2010 (?) - So I impregnated a woman with 4 kids who is in a verbally and physically abusive marriage. I did not know most of the facts at the time and it was sort of a woops moment, but yea. We always went to my place, etc.. Plus she wanted it. Kept...

We have only been dating for 3 months and I am worried it is too soon to talk about spending more time together, and eventually moving in together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - I have been dating a wonderful guy since the first of January. I have been divorced for 5 years, he has been divorced for 10. I have never met anyone who I have been more compatible with, except for one thing: I am ready for more of a permanent ...

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - My husband of 7 years started using drugs again. I truly love him but with his recent actions I am torn-what should I do stay with him and help him through this and hope for the real him to come back? He tells me to leave but I know its just the ...

My "friends with benefits" girl has fallen for me, and I'm torn between losing her for good or being in a relationship when I'm not sure I want it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - Hi all, Im in a right mess here :( This is rather long winded so i hope at least someone can be patient enough to read and respond. I have had what can only be described as a friend with benefits for the last 11 months. We're like best frie...

How can I stop losing my temper and beating my girl up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - hey man i have a girl who love me so much and am also very crazy about her but any b tyme i get mad at her i beat her up but yet still she love me canu tell me how to stop cos i love my baby girl so muchits all about my temper....

What is your take on this love letter?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...

I need your advice guys... What to do for the best???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I recently accepted to myself that i am in fact bisexual, but haven't really figured out a way to tell my very very conservative family just yet. My question, however, is not really about this. A part of my acceptance of myself involves a girl. I ...

I made a HUGE mistake last night!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - I made a HUGE mistake last night. In a moment of passion (during sexual foreplay) I asked my GF a hypothetical question of "If I wasn't in your life, and you had to be with one of our/your friends/acquaintances, who would it be? The problem is...

These stretch marks are the bain of my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - hi. im really insecure about my body. ive got stretch marks all over my boobs, bum, in-between my thighs, and knees and starting to get some on my hips. the thing is im not even fat, im a size 8-10. i had this boyfriend and when ever we got closer ...

How big a deal IS sex and fidelity in a marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a 24 year old married girl. I got married 2 years ago. I dont have any kids and my husband is away for the past year. I want to know how big a deal is sex. I love my husband, but i do not think that I should only have sex with him. I occa...

Friend gave me head while I was asleep.....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - I was at a party with my GF and we slept on the couch of a female friend that was hosting the party. I was on one end sort of sitting back and my GF was laying in the opposite direction. Well the problem is I wake up at about 6:30 am and look...

30 and still never had my first kiss...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - hi, i am female 30 years old and i never even got my 1st kiss nor 2nd kiss or 3rd kiss. never had a 1st boyfriend either, I know I am very heavy, unattractive face, short, I have been rejected more times then i count. I feel such an abnormal freak. ...

He broke me in every way one can think of. Will this pain never end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I am in a strange dilemma. I met this guy six years ago in college, and we began dating, more so because he forced me into it, and I did not want to break his heart by saying no, so I went along. He was someone who has always been brilliant, but he ...

Words of encouragement needed...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I feel terrible. Everything's not right. Everything has gone downhill. My grades are suffering. I didnt get into the national team. My love life's awful, I'm single and I miss my ex sometimes. Everything doesnt seem right. Can anyone please give me ...

How long do you wait until you simply agree to divorce this person and move on with your life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - If your spouse came to you and said they did not want to be married any longer, moved their stuff out of the house and began separation procedings. Months after the initial discussion, this same spouse tells you their feelings have grown platonic, ...

How can I stop being so shy around people my own age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - so, i wasnt sure what site to post my question on but i decided this one was the best cos i know theres a lot of people on here and someone has to be able to relate to my problem somehow. so any help you can offer please. thanks:) my problem is,...

Jealous and insecure about my boyfriend's sexual past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - This has been bothering me for a very long time now, but im very jealous and insecure of my boyfriend's sexual past. He has been with 17 other girls, and just before we got together slept with an older woman (we are 20 she was 40+) this is what ...

Love Letters to an Ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - OK, let’s be real. Love letters to exes don’t really work, do they? Have they ever worked? I wrote one, but haven't sent it yet. Maybe it will work for me, as I know people who have gotten back with their ex and have had successful relationships ...

Do I continue to hang out with him as a friend even although it kills me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I met a guy who goes to the same school that I do while on vacation with my friends last week. We hit it off and and by the end of the week, it felt like we'd known each other for years - we could joke freely and talk seriously with each other like ...

My partner seems confused, he wants to break it off then he doesn't. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - hi, where to start, Been with my partner only a short period of time but in that time things have been really good, we have met each others families, friends and all get on very well. Every couple has a moment and we had one at 6 months and worke...

I wearing my fiance's clothes and she doesn't know!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - I wearing my fiance's clothes and she doesn't know!! Ever since I can remember I've found myself really aroused by the thought of being sexually dominated by another man. Then a couple years ago I finally started watching gay porn - I immedia...

Hearing problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hey well im 15. And i have really sensitive hearing so it really bugs me when i cant hear. Well my left ear feels clogged and i can barely hear out of it. :( it kinda scares me. I'm pretty sure its not water cuz i havent been swiming and i clean me ...

Nervous flyer!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Does anyone have any helpful tips on how to stay relaxed while flying? I am a nervous flyer and would appreciate any tips!...

Why does rejection have to hurt so badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I hate that I'm pretty, I hate that boys like me. I hate it, because I have to truly be careful to see through which ones are jerks, and which ones aren't. I've been betrayed once by a very good friend, and the pain from that has weighed heavily on ...

We are throwing my sister a surprise engagement party, but it is the same weekend when I have planned a trip away! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I just found out that my sister is getting engaged this weekend. This is also the same weekend that I have a flight booked with my friend to go visit our other friend for the long weekend. I honestly don't know what I should do. My family is ...

My mum's dark secret...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - I am very upset with my mother and I don't know how to handle this situation. My mother never gives me credit for what I remember. My dad was in the army and was being sent to vietnam. I was the oldest and my brother wasn't born yet. I remember ...

I still love my ex, and to make matters worse, I just started a relationship with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - So, here's one for the record books! It's a bit long, but it's worth reading...you will be amused! I met a girl nearly a year ago. We don't live in the same city, but both of us are professional athletes and we travel around the country a lot fo...

My mum has threatened to kick me out of the house if I don't do what she wants!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - im 16, pretty independent, mature an very respectful. but lately ive been stressed out an realy upset cause of my mum. she is extremely controlling, in fact she grounded me until i am mature! my mum knows my dream is to be a great chef, and she ...

Sometimes I feel like a failure and other times I'm great

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - Sometimes I feel like a failure. Don't get me wrong I'm a happy guy and my grades are way above average. It's just at times there is something I can't do and it's like my mind just shuts down and I am unable to do that or any other tasks. I am a ...

He was bummed, and seemed disappointed. What can I do to help our budding relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - So the other night this guy who I really like and me had sex for the first time. I was a little confused because I couldnt tell if he was enjoying it or not... it was hard to see any facial expressions in the dark but I could feel that he was ...

Should I confront her and let destiny run its course?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - I'm in-love with my wife, she is my soul mate, the love of my life! We been married for 16 yrs and 13 yrs ago I caught her cheating on me, it broke my heart. She promise me that she would end the affair and begged me to stay I forgave her and took ...

I want to help him with his drug problem but I don't know how to... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hi, i really need help! My boyfriend is a very honest person, he's shared a lot of information with me since we've got together. It's been hard to take it all in; his past etc. However, i'm willing to accept him as a person. I really like him ...

Help!!! How do I end this affair?

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29 March 2010 (M) - I've just turned 21 and have been working at my job for about 18 months now. It started at last years work staff party. Everyone was dancing, drinking and partying, because i dont drink or smoke, i kept myself one side and chatted to anyone ...

My married best friend is in love with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - My best friend and I have been inseperable for the last 13 years. He has just recently gotten married. since then I have distanced myself, do to the fact that all women are not as comfortable with their other half having a female for a best friend. ...

I don't know how to cook and need some tips

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Ok I know this doesn't have anything to do with sex,relationship or love but I have to ask sombody...... well im 21 years old and I have a two year old and im preg.... I live with my boyfriend and my two year old. Well we always eat out, because ...

I love my boyfriend but I miss being single

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Before I started to date my boyfriend in December I use to have a drinking problem. I was drunk almost every weekend. I didn't let it go as far as drinking during the week, though it did take a big part on my grades at school. During my drinkin...

My boyfriend is falling for me way too fast after losing his virginity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, well this is my problem. I been with my boyfriend for about 3 months going on 4 and I'm his first everything. In the beginning I knew he was falling for me and he was falling fast. But now that I took his virginity I know that he i...

Dating advice required!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - hi everyone im a 25 year old dental student with only a few months left to qualify. recently joined a few dating websites and have been on a fair few dates in the last 5 months. i have also been set up by a few female friends who i work with. my pro...

I don't want to go abroad when my parents move... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I really want to stay in the country I am, but my parents are forcing me to go to Australia, which I don't want to. They want me to go in July. How can I stop this? I don't want to go abroad!!...

He loves me but doesn't believe me...!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - hi, I have a bf and I've been in a relationship with him for about one year! He is so sweet and caring. I love him a lot and he loves me a lot too but he always doesn't believe girls..!! We both are studying in different countries and we are ...

Evidence of a possible affair from years ago, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts Please can you give me some advice. To cut a long story short, I am recovering from finding out that my husband was having an affair - this was over two years ago [2008] and we did the counselling thing. And to date things have...