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writes:I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and a half months nw,ever since we dated we been spending a lot of time together and we spend nights together,i have my own rented house but i spend most of my time at his house,we are thinking of moving in together,when is the right time? Reply to this Question
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reader, Mentuye  +, writes (5 March 2011):
I agree with Kenj. What you are seeing may not be a real love. New behaviors will come after you decide to live together. I am afraid that you will say one day "oh I was wrong". Physical affection may not give us a sign to be together. I would like to advise you to wait some time before you decide.
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reader, lov advice seeker for teens n young  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 move with him only wen ur fixed that its the right time first earn money n then settle n live a happy life
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 I would wait until you've been going out for a year. When you live together you have to be with each other all the time and be used to each other's habits. If you're not used to them and then you're flooded with them all at once then the stress can cause arguments. I'd get used to being with him gradually over time and then decide whether you want to move in together.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Its a big step moving in together, personally I think 2.5 months is too soon, but I guess it depends on the people involved in the relationship.
Personally I would think 6 months onward would be a better time.
I have no doubt you feel love for each other but you should both wait and see if that feeling dies off after time, it's called infactuation and can be mistaken very easily for true love.
I hope it works out for you both.
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