A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am a shy guy and this girl found me in office. She seems much younger. There is nothing much charming about me, but this girl went nuts when she saw me. She giggled whole day looking at me from her desk and sent on vibes that were too strong. I got nervous and confused that what she saw in me to make her nuts this way. Day two she saw my nervousness and she became conscious too, which in turn made me more nervous. we stared each other, look for each other entire day from far off. There was nothing common to approach this girl in office and My shyness and designation were killing me(I am three levels above her). I started losing focus on my work and all this non-stop staring and chasing was taking too much attention. After a month I took a stand to E-mail her on office id asking her to be My friend. I took a very big risk of putting my career at risk. Next day when she read my e-mail, she gathered everyone including her manager at her desk showing them something and she created a scene about something, all just to scare and play me up. The scene she created was about something else and not about me. but she was successful in scaring me up pretty much. I am all ready to stop chasing her but one of my friends says she is too young and may be she is just confused and I need to give her time and smile and approach her. but I am too nervous after the way she played me. how do I take this further. Is she Not interested or she is scared or just playing me up. I have fallen for her.
View related questions:
shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Stop chasing tail and focus on your job men are so easily distracted for all you kno this woman could be trying to get your job. its better to be a wealthy employed shy virgin then then a unemployed bum chasing sum skirt. this women seems to imature dont waste your time. Its not worth it you said this could cost you your career if your just trying to get laid like everyone else im sure you can round up something outside of work
A
male
reader, TimmD +, writes (31 March 2010):
 She sounds pretty young and immature. Add that to the fact that you seem VERY shy and the fact that this could effect your job.... I'd suggest NOT trying to have a relationship with her.
You don't need that kind of stress. There are plenty of other nice girls outside of work who would be more mature and better for you.
Don't chase after this girl.
...............................
|
