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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: hi, I have a bf and I've been in a relationship with him for about one year! He is so sweet and caring. I love him a lot and he loves me a lot too but he always doesn't believe girls..!! We both are studying in different countries and we are maintaining a long distance relationship but quite recently he says to me that he doesn't believe me coz of unfaithful girls in his country. I really love him a lot and I'm very truthful to him. I dont even have friends coz he becomes possesive and sensitive at times... hes the only one who is important to me and so I dont even have friends but still now he never trusts me... he says that he loves me but admits that he has some kinda hatred towards me!! The main problem here is he doesn't believe girls and doesn't believe me either. I'm really confused. Sometimes he's sooo sweet and sometimes he becomes angry and says that he hates me coz he doesn't believe girls. He has mixed emotions.. there are two questions for me..!1. How can I make him believe me?2. How can I change his bad opinion abt girls?
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reader, Kenj +, writes (30 March 2010):
If he doesnt believe you then he doesnt love you.
When a guy truly loves a woman, he gives her his 100% trust, stands by her and wants to see her make a good life.
If he is controling you now then imagine what it will be like further down the line?
You should really concider if this guy is right for you.
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